NO ORGASM...huh?

Newlywed here again!

Me & hubby have great sex, but it's rock-hard for me to have an orgasm. contained by the 10 months we've been married, he's given me resembling 3 or 4. I'm a 30 yr old woman next to children, and sometimes I can't even tell when I do!

I have this problem before wedding, and it's hard for me to know if I do (have an orgasm) . I don't know if it's his voluminous penis size/width or what?!
I thought something was wrong beside me, but I've read some women just don't enjoy them and I'd hate to deem that is me. I don't know why this is. Any philosophy?
Answers:

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This stuff happens next to my ex hubby i couldnt nither .
you need to tolerate your self go until you be aware of that feeling I be so scared to consent to my self feel flawless but now can do it over and over again...

Just relax and enjoy fun and you will do it belive me

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maybe he's not giving it to you right.

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Use some instruction book stimulation on your clitoris. Works like a charm every time :-)

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trust me you would know if you have an orgasm!!

I really feel for you that would be beyond doubt terrible!

Just achieve him to pay rather more attention on that part and take home him work that little harder to make sure you do orgasm! even if it scheme toys, more foreplay, wahtever but you cant go throughout wedding ceremony with orgasming one and only 3-4 times in 10 months!

Hell you want 3-4 times a morning!

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sometimes orgasm is not reached due to a insufficiency of foreplay. it is said that the more intense the foreplay the better the orgasm. so try some hectic fun filled foreplay in the past the sex and see if that helps

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That article you read is right. A lot of women don't hold orgasms. If you had one you'd know it. I'm not sure if you're intensely open, but you could try masturbating. If you know how to carry yourself off, it's easier to update someone else how to do it. Good Luck!

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Well first tolerate me say I am sorry if you are not climaxing during sex. What nearly during oral sex, do you climax then? Or, what more or less when you masturbate? (If you don't, try it) I think you and your husband call for to concentrate on stimulating your clitoris. Oh, and trust me when I say you will know when you own an orgasm! Good luck!

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Does he perform oral sex on ya. Maybe that's what you involve.

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First of all it is not his "job" to supply you an Orgasim, it is actually your Job to own an orgasim with him, so you own to do what you do when you masterbate, just beside him there (he'll be ok beside it trust me) and if you say you don't masterbate, consequently that is the problem right here! Now once YOU get better aquented near your body, you will be able to relief him 'push' the right buttons.

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Adult toys, and I don't mean Trival Pursuit.,sounds similar to you are already playing that one.

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this is a theory which i foot primarily on past relationships. Of the girls i've dated, four of them found it awfully difficult to have an orgasm because they be not 100% comfortable being in the buff. they actually thought i be unsatisfied with their body. i couldnt appreciate this since i found each to be extremely exquisite. However, i hope they've gotten rid of that insecurity or they'll never fully enjoy sex near someone who loves them.

Maybe that isnt your problem at all ... and i outstandingly doubt its your husband's size. i think you a moment ago need to stop thinking roughly how you'll never orgasm and simply let your fleece down and go crazy. i dont know... thats adjectives i got - i hope you cure this hideous problem.

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alot of times it has to do near anxiety. you are not relaxing or just worrying more or less it. try to have a chalice of wine before sex. does he bestow you oral sex? perhaps focus on you for 10 minutes or so and ask your husband to try different things next to his hands and tongue and you entail to let him know what you delight in. Definately, ensure that he is making time to please you and not just looking after himself. Perhaps experiment beside yourself when he is not around and you have some silent time. Believe me, when you climax you will definately know. hope this helps out. I am 41,four kids and own been married for 23 years. We own the best sex we have ever have now.

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maybe it the postiton that you guys are doing? try something differnt.maybe a moment or two more foreplay can do the trick. add some toys, finger yourself when he's in you etc. sometimes i don't when when i enjoy sex with my hubby but later the next time i do. freshly enjoy the special time that you enjoy with your hubby and relax. perchance your too worried about have an orgasm and thats why. remember relax and enjoy your time together :)

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I agree with Amata26. Some clitoral stimulation works for me 99% of the time. The other 1% it still feel really good, I freshly don't get to the "Big O" formerly he does, lol. I unfortunately be very infantile when I became sexually influential, I am 20 now, but it wasn't until the final sexual relationship before I get married that I ever experienced an orgasm. I came to realize that the size of the penis did business, to me, in that aspect. And I don't penny-pinching bigger was better, the exact contrasting (but not too small, of course). I thought I was only just one of those women who never have them, but near the right person and technique, it be very simple. My husbands get me everytime lol.

Being that you are 30 years old, I would suggest you've explored your body on your own, so maybe if you can do it by yourself, try to feel of positions where he can stimulate you equal way you do yourself. That's pretty much how I be able to, consequently experiment from there.

Good luck and don't provide up! Have fun trying. :)

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Try to relax and clear your mind during sex. Don't focus on have an orgasm just wallow in the moment. Have you try different position or places? try having an orgasm be yourself to see if you bring one that way.

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1 word: vibrator.

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vibrator.sex toys.maby you want a man who can give sex and in actuality do it good you call for good sex not a kiss and a hump and next off! hehe

Get a penis pump for your man...im sure that will pump you up. eh

If those dont work (lol) after STOP HAVEING SEX...SRRY BUT YOU MAY NEED TO. some women cant live without sex resembling me hehe but im sure you can try it he!

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My favorite, is the shower massage, point the right on the clitoris, on easier said than done pulse, OMG! its great! if he will joint you within the shower, have he stand losing you, as you use the shower head on your clitoris. and no size doesn't thing, its all within the technique.
also try mounting him with facing his foot, and rub yourself as you ride it.

RELAX, and TRY AND JUST HAVE FUN! the more relaxed the easier it is to have one too!

Masturbation?PROBLEMSERIOUSLY?

I asked this same ask today. I don't have them any. The sex feels devout to me but my husband seems to dream up that he had not skilful his job sexually unless the sex make me have an mud shattering orgasm. I have never have one in my go with any of my previous partner and I have have one or two great lovers.

I did some research today and learned that most women do not do orgasm vaginally, the clitoris has to be stimulated contained by order for the orgasm to take place. Each woman is different. You have to find "your trigger" and if you don't own one, don't worry too much something like it.
Enjoy the closeness that love making gives you and your husband.
That's what I plan to try.

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you know when you hold an orgasm its not possible to hold 1 and not know maybe you want to relax whatever agency possible and a woman has to hold her clitoris stimulated to reach an orgasm i don't safekeeping what any one says thats the plain truth worthy luck to you

Why do i keep getting thrush?

#1--There is nooo track in hell you dont know when you hold an orgasm...

#2--he needs to find ur g spot...

#3--If you hold great sex...and no orgasm...its not great... sorry... He needs to swot how to please you...