Post-Op LAVH (hysterectomy) 10 weeks, still in constant pain? Anyone else? Stories? advice?

I have a LAVH (vaginal hysterectomy) for Dysfunctional Uterine Bleeding 10 weeks ago. Since next I own have several UTI's, infection in navel incision site, and in a minute a 1mm kidney stone (still lofty within kidney). I am within constant distress. Most times it is bearable, but never igorable. I hold torment radiating up my disappeared side from ovary to kidney, chronic lower abdominal torment (like fruitless menstral cramps), vaginal tightness & strain that make sex so uncomfortable, (it lightens up during intercourse but does not walk away) and the subsequent few days after sex my tummy in recent times ACHES! I cannont sit surrounded by any position for too long as it hurts my "hoo hoo" (as my 3 yr antediluvian call it) and when I "rock" on my pelvis, (like when you renovate spaces position by sitting up straight or slouching) it impose a sharp achy impression contained by my lower abs/pelvic region.

Any MD's want to put their 2cents worth contained by? (my OB/GYN keep aphorism "Give it time" ,indistinguishable Dr who asks me "How far along" I am when I phone!)
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can I bring back some give a hand from a female??

10 weeks after an LAVH is a *long* time to still be experiencing these kind of symptoms. Get a copy of your operative report, video or photos from the surgery, discharge summary and your pathology reports and pinch them to another gyn for an supplementary assessment. It sounds similar to something happen to your bladder any during or as a result of the LAVH; it is not unusual for tolerant to experience bladder-related symptoms following a hyst.; however, 10 weeks of this beside chronic symptoms is far too long and not commonplace surrounded by the slightest. See someone else and ask for their input...you should not be suffering similar to this. Good luck to you.

Im sorry to ask this, what age for an "average american" administer up her virginity?

I have answered earlier question just about hysterectomy (I am a woman who have hysterectomy not vaginal though I am no doctor but I do enjoy deeply of experience). I would say-so that 6 weeks after the hysterectomy would be "normal" to perceive severe spasm within the incision nouns, when you pull things or do any work that wants crouching or bending. What you describe does not sound
right. Why do you bring back UTI's? the kidney stone is probably form too little drinking, and the affliction after intercourse should hold gone away after the first few times. I would strongly insist on you to desire direction from another gynecologist, attain him or her to write down anything they find wrong near you. There might be a possibility that he botched up something while operating on you.
Good luck.