How do I know if I have lost my virginity?

It was a forced insertion against resisting and it have been 5 years since the incident. I have a feeling it was partial insertion just against my resistance. How do I know if my hymen is intact before I enter into legitimate marriage?
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As others have said, the state of the hymen have nothing to do near virginity. Girls are born with hymens of varying sizes and thicknesses, and some are born beside none at all. They can be broken through adjectives sorts of ordinary events like horseback riding, gymnastics, etc. formerly she even reaches puberty, or by a tampon or a gynecological exam. Some are so sturdy that vaginal intercourse doesn't break them the first time.

Regardless, you be sexually assaulted *at least* (and given your description, I would say raped), and you stipulation to deal beside that more than you need to verbs about the state of your hymen (I'm hoping. If you live in a country where on earth your virginity is actually an issue, I don't know what to communicate you). You should seek counseling, and afterwards talk to your fiancé when you quality ready. Unfortunately since it have been five years you may not know how to press charges - in some states contained by the US, the statute of limitations on a rape case would enjoy already run out. I would check up on the laws that apply where on earth you live and see if there is any permitted action you can bear.

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If a penis penetrated your vagina you enjoy lost your virginity. Your hymen has zilch to do with virginity since it is recurrently broken by playing sports or horsback riding etc.

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Some girls are born without hymens. Some hymens are lost by rigorous deeds like bike riding or horse put a bet on riding. I am not downplaying what happened to you. It's horrible that it happen...however...you can't determine a woman's virginity by whether or not their hymen is intact. Good luck.

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You know you lost your virginity when you have sex. Some relatives say they've lost their virginity to tampons, or riding a horse when their hymen breaks, But I mull over it should only count if it's sexual intercourse.

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First of adjectives, I just want to say-so that I'm really sorry you had to move about through that.

The hymen, however, is not neccesarily an indicator of virginity. It can be broken through activities such as gymnastics, cycling, or horseback riding, as ably as masturbation. In some cases, it appears that tampon use has fairly ruptured the hymen. There have even be cases in which the womanly was apparently not born next to one.

So, the definition of virginity is not quite so simple. I construe you need to whip some time out to examine your own, personal perspective on this. Do you feel you are a virgin? I'm not going to detail you how you should feel on that one, as I do not know you and hold never been contained by your position.

If you still want to go on the hymen assumption, though, you could probably get a gynocologist to "check" for you. It's not more than ever difficult.

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Technically, if anyone penetrated, your vagina for sex, even partially, you are not a virgin.

I am sorry to hear of your sexual assault, it can own long-after emotional effects.

To know if you hymen is intact, step to a Dr. and have a vaginal exam.

I enjoy read that some girls' hymens are quite gelatinous and for purposes of pain, choose to own the Dr. cut it before the nuptials.

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I never have sex until I was nineteen. It have always be said the when you break your hymen through sexual intercourse you will bleed. I didn't bleed so can only assume it be broken before I have lost my virginity. I was brought up as a tom boy chased cows, carried bricks, rode bikes, jump on and off trucks, tractors, bull dozers etc, rumbled and tumbled near my two brothers. So very smooth to tear or rip your hymen.

If you enjoy had sex even partial sexual intercourse after it is gone. Depending on your culture this can be a problem. If you have money you can hold surgery to tighten things up but why bother as life happen.

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Having an intact hymen have nothing to do next to the legalities of marriage, at least possible not in the United States.

Women within some cultures have plastic surgery so they will hold an intact hymen for their wedding hours of darkness. Other women have it for a "second honeymoon".

It sounds approaching you have some other issues here, close to talking to your fiance something like having be raped.

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I would read out... "paulieandlupe" summed it up pretty well. No... you may not technically be 'virgin' and I know that would anticipate a lot to me if I lost that, and I'm sure it does to you too, but the certainty that you were assaulted... hymen or not, access or not... it doesn't matter, that contained by itself won't make you "dirty" or "bad" or anything resembling that. I wouldn't worry nearly whether your hymen is intact, in fact... if I be a girl getting ready for sex, I'd probably be glad if it wasn't here, but aside... just clear sure you're dealing with what happen and that your life is intact, and the rest will business less.

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You own not lost you virginity yet if you forced to hold sex. If you still feel wierd going on for it, if you are religious, pray to god and he will give you a item called seconary virginity because god will fill up on you with your cleanliness of virginity for your marrige. Your fiance could give a hand you with this if he really loves you. Also consult a OBGYN to check if you caught anything from your previos experiance, also to check if you lost your hymen even so.

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Have you been to the police, this is attempted rape hon.

If you feel pain after it could be possible that your hymen did break under these horrid conditions. Whether you resisted, the performance is still the same.

Virginity is defined beneath so many ways. If you love this man and he loves you rear legs then try to describe him. If you are entering an arranged marriage. Best not enlighten him. You need to see a doctor.

Good Luck and I sincerely hope you told someone.






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