Losing your virginity?
Well.
Ive decided to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of 11 months.
Dont ask for my age because its my own personal decision.
But I get a few questions, and I know its different for everyone.but. just answer them? xD
- Will it hurt more if you've never used a tampon back?
- Im a horse jumper - have be for 5 years - is there a possiblity my hymen is already broke?
- If he just enter you one time then takes it out, it won't hurt as much as it would if you in actual fact had sex, right?
- and we aren't going to buy any lube. erm. Could we possibly use like..sea or something? xD
- and anything else you care to add.
Thank you. ^^
Answers: okay your right this is your judgment but this is my opinion think around this your baby is crying in the middle of the dark and you have school within the morning your a single mother working all the time instead of having a apposite time at collage (at least i hope so) and what if the condom breaks think more or less that and if you get an abortion your obviously not develop enough to be able to bar the responsibility of being a parent and an adult and hang about until you have a husband a collage degree and the money to support a husband a child and yourself.and if your below 18 it is ILLEGAL to have sex. and if your under 18 and he is elder than 18 it is called RAPE or vice versa.
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-Prior tampon use might improve the cramp if the tampon fully perforated the hymen.
-Yes, it's possible (and maybe even likely) that you don't hold a hymen, but you might still feel pain. The hymen isn't the sole source of aching during first-time sex.
-It'll hurt, but you probably won't have that soreness that many women complain roughly after losing their virginities.
-I highly recommend you do buy lube. Water won't work and other household items might not be safe.
Just be risk-free. Use protection. Hope I helped..
Yes it will hurt. I'm sure you're still in tact even next to horse jumping. Why would he only enter you one time and afterwards take it out? Actually the better question is why do you regard he would only enter you one time and get out? Once a man get going, he's not going to get out. You cannot use water, wet is not a lubricant and will only make things worse. Look, I'll be straight, the first time will grain like you've been ram with a 10 foot pole. - Tampons aren't possibly big enough to break the hymen, and unsurprisingly it will hurt. It's going to be a little sore down there for the first few times until the hymen is completly broken.
- No, horse jump will not break the hymen.
- I'm still a virgin, so I don't know how much it will hurt when he pulls out.
- I suggest you buy Astroglide or KY Jelly becuase it will hurt without any lube. UNLESS, you have a while of foreplay and your readily lubricated for him to enter.
- more comments ;
Please remind him to use protection.
Unless your mature enough to fiddle with AIDs/HIV/STDS
And a pregnacy.
Be safe, and have fun..
i've never have sex but i do use tampons and they don't hurt...everyone is different in size...so if he's really big...it's probably going to hurt a little..but if he's majority i wouldn't say so. also...i've heard most girl's hymen is broken already because of day by day activities.
i don't think marine would work..buy lubricated condoms..
USE CONDOMS. water is no good.. U both entail to warm each other up.. forplay, kiss fondle chafe , that should supply you with enough automatic lube .. and yes your hymen may allready be broken, it depends on a lot of things and differnet people if it hurts more or not.. If you really grain you are ready and u both take your time. turn slow and sensual.. make love not just enjoy sex...you should be fine.. make sure he WEARS CONDOM.. if you are unsure of these things thenn yea clearly your too young to be have sex... tampons are so small that they do not stretch or pull any thing. its possible your hymen is broken but how would we know. if he enter you that is sex and chances are it might hurt. and no dampen doesn't work like lube. .
you could prepare for him by using a dildo.
make sure that he meet your needs before he's out for his self-centred self..
:] how old are you?
remember, use a condom kids!
hahahaha.
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OBVIUSL YHOO ARE UNDER 16 OR YHOO WUDNT HAVE PUT THE BIT BT YA AGE
BUT YHOO ARE RIGHT IT IS YOUR OWM PERSONAL DECISSION
ITS UP 2 YHOO
AND YHOO NOW YHOO CAN TRUST HIM CAUSE YHOO HAVE BEEN TOETHER SO LONG
3# IT DEPENDS ON YA BODY BUT USUALLY IT DOES HURT MORE IF YHOO HAVENT USED A CONDOM BEFOR
2# CAUSE YOUR A HORSE RIDER YHES YOUR HYMEN MAY ALREADY BE BROKE
3# IT WOULDNT HURT AS MUCH IF HE JUST PUTS IT IT THEN TEKS IT STRAIGHT OUT
<BUT THAT IS HAVING SEX.
AND YHOO WILL PROBERLY WANT TO HAVE PROPA SEX ONCE HE HAS PUT IT IN
4# LUBE REALLY DOSE HELP IF IT IS YOUR FIRST TIME YHOO COULD USE VASALINE THOUGH IF YHOO WANATED
AND I WOULD LIKE TO ADD
I KNOW YHOO ARE UNDER 16 BUT SO AM I I HAD IT FOR THE FIRST TIME LAST WEEK SO I CANT GET ON AT YA 4 THAT
SO LONG AS YHOO ARE READY WHICH SOUNDDS LIKE YHOO ARE
JUST DO IT
XXXX
BTW SORRY BT THE CAPITALS MY KEYBOARD HAS BROKE
HOPE I HELPED LOVE GHAYHEAD
XX.
your right, its your decree but be careful and aware of the possible consequences.
to answer your questions...
it adjectives depends on the person... but the more stretching you get down at hand ... the less it will generally hurt but next again a tampon is so small so it really doesn't do anything for ya.
it is also known that the more active you are beside your body there is a possibility that the hymen can break/stretch without have sex. horse jumping sounds like it would unequivocally fall under this possibility... usually dancers, gymnasts, etc.
if he enter you one time... if the first time... it will hurt acctually more than if you guys had sex. this is because at first you will be "tight" and if you guys have sex it will be repetition and stretch your hymen consequently making there less affliction. if you guys already have the condom on and are ready ... why would you squander the good moment and have him singular enter you once? just my opinion.
and later ... lube can be helpful but its not necessary. sea can be used but that may be complicated. i would try without any lube first and see how that goes. if you wish you need something... then walk searching around the house there are a bunch of things you can use... NEVER soap though. i hear it burns.
... be safe and have a blast :)