First time Sex..does it hurt?

Me and my boyfriend have be dating for almost 2 years.
we love eachother and someday are planning to get married. we are both virgins, but both want to enjoy sex. he isnt scared, capably because hes a guy. but im really scared it is going to hurt because from what i other hear, you bleed, and its very scratchy. i just want to know if it really is raw, and if you bleed, is it alot?
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it hurts but it is berable!and after a few times is unbelievably pleasurable!! nd u do bleed but not alot.and some people even dnt bleed! it jus depends on how ur r ''dwn here''.


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It totally depends on your body. for some women it hurts alot, other especially little or not at all... Not celebration, right? Only about 40% of women bleed their first time, and it is usually not highly much, more like spotting. It's not unusual to be sore for a hours of daylight or two afterward.

Chances are, it will hurt some. It will hurt less if you budge slow and relax. You might also want to get on top, because later YOU can control the speed that things go at. Some guys ting that if they stick it in rapid, it will hurt less, which is pure balderdash. The "ripping off the banadge" suggestion does not apply here.

Most people's first time isn't adjectives that great, but it gets abundantly better once you get the dangle of things. Just make sure you use some big-hearted of protection, always.

Does the hymen hurt when breaking?

awww please only wait untillyou receive married, dont you want the FIRST time you have sex to be on your nuptials night!?

Is it typical to pee a little when you sneeze extremely powerfully?

Generally the bleeding comes from breaking your hymen. . . a thin membrane i.e. at the entrance of the vagina.
You may or may not still have this as ALOT of women break their hymen's from as effortless of things as riding a bike,inserting a tampon. . .anything that bounces a woman.
Because the both of you are virgins,there may be some discomfort because the both of you are topical at this and inexperienced BUT if the two of you love each other as you vote you do then you should know how to talk respectively other through this first encounter.
You may want to have some lubricant available which may reduce any discomfort that is experienced.
If you are loving and tender next to this first experience,it should certainly permit you both know what is meant when they telephone call it. . . .Making Love


P.S. McNeil certainly make a good point.

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if ur both ready i would right to be heard go for it, instinctively for me it hurt a little at first, but next the pleasure takes over, i didnt bleed, but i guess it only depends on your body type, just transport it slow and enjoy it, freshly make sure u wear pretection besides its better both to be virgins after to do it with an experienced one cuz they dont know what near doing u prolly wont either, so newly go along. Girl, hold fun and take the randomness while u can.

Is it normal to raining yourself occassionally (like once or twice a year)?

i dont know!

Itch and irritation..?

A lot of it will also depend on the style of lovemaking that you and your bf use, and to some extent the relative size of his Willy vs your vag. If you go too vigorous and are really tensed up, it will have a complex chance of hurting. Take your time, don't rush it when it happen, and make sure you're aroused ample to have plenty of lubrication surrounded by your vagina. If you use a condom (AND YOU SHOULD!), it might be a good thought to use a pre-lubricated one, or invest in some KY gel... saliva makes a pious lubricant, and is lots of fun to apply. ;-)

Again, the primary thing is not to rush it... you might even "practice" contained by advance near a finger to stretch yourself a little (GENTLY!). Some pregnant women prepare for childbirth by starting beside a few fingers, and eventually moving up to an orange... same principle applies...

When my wife and I started dating, we be both virgins too. On our first night together, it be really hard not to only just plow ahead... my hormones almost took over completely... Luckily, I had get some good counsel from a friend to go slow, embezzle a long time, use lots of foreplay, and watch her for signs of dull pain. She was sore the subsequent day, but not impossible, and had no misery when I first entered her. There be only the tiniest amount of bleeding. It be wonderful for both of us, and it can be for you too. To some extent we got lucky, so don't verbs if the fireworks don't happen the first time, because that take practice and a lot of study to read your partner (especially on his part... don't be afraid to tell what is working and what isn't!)...

A final record... don't feel resembling you have to walk all the agency the first time you get in your birthday suit with him... and product sure he understands that too... appropriate it as it goes... near's a whole world out within... If you are already familiar next to each other contained by some ways, it will make that final step that much sweeter.
Best,
Ed, RN

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for me, truthfully i be so scared the first time. but eneded up not hurting at adjectives !! i never bleed, nor has any of my friends any. pleasurable... but not painfull the first time... well at most minuscule for me =]

Girls only! please answer.?

Majority of inhabitants bleed a little or didn't bleed at adjectives during their first intercourse. For my case, I bleed rather a lot and still bleed rather after the first time. Even so, it's only hurts a touch. I guess it depends how thick ur hymen is. Just relax, i bet everything would be fine.






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