12 1/2 weeks after babe-in-arms and sex is painfull?

I had my son March 9th and when i go for my checkup 4 weeks later they told me that the cervical polyp i have during pregnancy was presently gone but my cervix was slightly inverted. The problem is that even presently all these weeks subsequently sex is painful surrounded by any position. My clitoris is also not the same. I tore upwards. The clit problem hasnt gotten any worse but vaginal intercourse is getting worse and my dr is recounting me to give it time but its be 3 months. Any advice??

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Vaginal burning during and after sex?

Since you tore upwards, did he conceivably put to many stitches within?

About Sex?

I think you should do exactly what your doctor said and GIVE IT TIME. It have only be 3 months since you had a human ripped through your loins so I reflect on you should at least hang around until it has be 6 months and head rear legs to the doctor. As for your honey just enlighten him to bear w/ you. I know the ending thing you stipulation right now is stress from anything else but that beatiful newborn, but I think you should skulk longer before you start worrying that it wont fix itself.

Ladies, do you shave your privates? if so why?

I regard as you should give yourself time - probably try & maturbate if you feel the entail for a sexual experience. If your husband is pressuring you (I know it is a sensitive subject) perhaps try & fill him otherwise.

I know women who have gotten pregnant again the month after giving birth and I other thought - how could they even have sex? For me it be not enjoyable again until just about 3-4 months after giving birth. I tore downwards the first time and was cut the second time.

It really take a year for your body to get final to a "normal" state - although as you are finding out we are never the "same" again.

Good luck, and enjoy the babe!

OB or General Practitioner?

I did not tear upward, but still have a very rock-hard time healing, honestly it hurt for a year!! I go to see a gynecologist, and he said to use Astroglide lubricant, it is closest to natural and if you are the smallest bit dry, it will cause irritation. We use it every time in a minute. Also I don't know if you are using birth control, but condoms really irritated it also, we could only use Lifestyles plain, no spermicide or ribs.
I have a sneaking suspicion that my doctor at the time did something wrong also, it hurt a little until after my second child, I enjoy no idea why, but I guess doesn`t matter what he did wrong, or what healed wrong get re-cut and healed correct, rather gross I know.
Give it time and use the lube, its messy, but worth it to not be in headache.