tips so fingering doesnt hurt?

hey im a virgin..and ive tried fingering myself and it hurts!..and i can barley get my finger in..what can i do or use so it wont hurt.bcuz i plan on havin sex next to my b/f and i dont want it to hurt when he sticks it in..my friends told me it really hurts the 1st daysss...i dont want that..what can i do?
Answers:

How old do u hold to be to buy condoms and have sex?

How infirm are you anyway? You are probably too young to be worrying nearly sex. Wait. You won't regret waiting.

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if you dont want it to hurt, then agree to him put it in your butt

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wow! Unbelievable. Do you really exist?

Hysterectomy Experience?

it's gonna hurt anyway. but it get better. I suppose you could use something else, a vibrator or whatnot, before paw, but it'll hurt, too. Nothing else to do!

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Don't give up hope. Take a break and try again following!

First Gyno visit. What to expect?

Make sure your finger nail are trimmed and don't have any sharp edges. Relax formerly putting it in so it doesn't hurt so much. I hate to break it to you but it'll hurt the first time anyway. When it comes to it clutch it slow, relax, and make sure your boyfriend give you lots of foreplay.

Hysterectomy?

lube it up lovey! sometimes your body doesn't produce enough of its own lubrication if your not 'horny' plenty. and remember to relax, this will help. But no concern what you do it will always be a bit mortified your fist few times. (it gets better)

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try using a tampon first, later step up in size as you ge tmore comfortable. hymens are outstandingly over rated

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use some KY on your finger when your bf puts his penis in your vagina it hurts the first time after that it does not

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sex lone hurts a bit for the first couple of times and then it doesnt after that. but yeah breed sure there is lots of foreplay otherwise u might back up being extremely dissapointed

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Your own fingers - still you require plentifully of foreplay for sufficient lubrication. But nothing close to a penis, even it hurts a bit still more enjoyable.

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take it in the pooper

I`am 14 am i ancient enough to use tampons?

If you don't want it to hurt the first time, gain really drunk. You'll never know if it hurts or not.

Is this possible (serious question)?

one shouldn't stuck their finger into the vaginal at the first go ! resembling making love need to enjoy foreplay, fingering required you to be first aroused, hence you have to travel slow, fantasize[ or watching porn ], touch your others body parts for a start, then nipples n vaginal should be the finishing step[ make sure your paw is cleaned ] ! you bf or husband should do the same [ if they are experience next they would know ], thats foreplay n he shouldn't rush during penetration, if its hurt the female then he should stop, verbs fingering n play like kissing, suck/lick the nipples, budge slow , gentle n tender is the means of access to treat the virgin !