My wife purely have a miscarriage and i don't know what to do to cheer her up.
Answers: Just be there for her thats adjectives you can do for her she needs time to grieve. I'm sure given time she will be happy again..
Well it is greatly traumatic for a woman to lose her baby, and although it sounds strange trying to cheer her up isn't going to help. You entail to be understanding, and there when she desires you. Bring her coffee and run her a nice relaxing bath, and just hold her on the sofa. Don't bring her chocolates or flowers, because probability are she won't want fuss, but just cook her a nice meal so she doesn't starve, and don't consent to her get drunk.
She will be ok eventually, everything heals contained by time, and while you're waiting, just make sure she know that you understand her and are there for her whenever she desires you.
Sorry for your loss, but I hope that next time you will be celebrating.
*Angel*.
we too enjoy just recently suffered a miscarriage and to be honest there's nil you can really do except tell her how much you love her, talk to her, listen to her, largely be there for her and above all be tolerant. It's not just her that's had a miscarriage, you hold to and whilst it's sweet you're thinking of her, make sure you look after yourself too. We went out and bought a 46" tv! but 4 weeks on and it's still a struggle and the tears are still nearby. We also got a teddy from bears4u.co.uk. It have a little jumper on which you can design a logo on and write something. Ours have a red jumper with an angel on it and on the stern "bean july 2008" so we actually have something to remember and in actual fact cry over. It's a nice idea and will be treasured forever. Fact is you're not a magician and adjectives that will help is time, it still hurts, but obviously ease with time. Love to the both of you and I pray you do eventually get the child you long for x Wow..its a awfully sensitive topic. I suggest you can try to comfort her by saying...your going to try again to have a newborn..please take care of your body till consequently. You can also get her some favs food or buy some chocalate to cheer her up, or mayb take her to a nice mini leave to somewhere else, so she can forget about the miscarriage.
I hope this help and honest luck..
Just be there if she wants to converse and let her be in peace if she doesn't. Arrange outings that are appropriate - resembling go for a walk contained by a forest or a park, nothing too extravagant or loud, but the fresh air will do her dutiful and I think it helps to cart us out of ourselves to get away sometimes.
Personally I enjoy geocaching (geocaching.com) - I don't know if a different hobby would help, but it is a healthy distraction, as you can both speech about your feelings while you stroll if you want to. At the same time you have a focus which vehicle you can have a break from emotional negotiations if you prefer..
aww im so sorry 4 ur loss, i dont kno if ur able to but maybe lug her for a meal or a little break at a hotel n trademark her feel special n pampered and u aswell as im sure ur hurtin too
for in a minute give her a big cuddle ...
tht alwyas makes me surface better no matter wat the problem is
xxx.
Oh that is heart-rending.
Get the duvet on the sofa, make her dinner, get some of her predilection magazines, LOTS OF CHOCOLATE, and a big hug from her husband. :)
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the best thing you could do for her is to hold her and recount her that it is okay for her to be upset and tell her that she can be upset as long as she wants too. Let her treat in her own time.
BTW the fastest way to return with over a miscarriage is to get pregnant again. So make another kid. and good luck to you.