Have you have a Surgical abortion?
Answers: Yes, I did, a year and a half ago.
I be 19, unmarried and pregnant. And I come from a Muslim family. For them to find out I had a off the record boyfriend for nearly two years would have been satisfactory for them to go crazy. When they found out about him at the amazingly beginning, they threatened to kill me if I hold a boyfriend again, but I followed my heart. So if they knew I had be seeing him for two years behind their back, ably it would have been impossible. For them to know I've been having sex next to him, I dread to imagine. I had a choice of running away from home and starting a unknown life with him, on my own, contained by a foreign country, or have an abortion. I had to choose an abortion because I couldn't hurt my line.
The actual procedure was uncomfortable. It didn't second very long, and they give you sedative and painkillers so you don't really feel much, it's just discomfited, and for me, emotional.
Afterwards I felt calamitous, I felt so much guilt, and really regretted it. It was horrible. I become depressed and was on anti-depressants. I cried so much for so long. I still mourn now, and it's be a year and a half.
However, looking back, it be good in one respect for me intuitively. 6 months after I was diagnosed with cancer. Having a childish baby whilst battling cancer near no support from family would have be very very difficult.
But one discouraging thing, the chemo has most plausible left me infertile. Only do it if you have no other choice whatsoever..
I own. Twice.
Everyone's circumstances are different, my dear. Mine were horrible. I was married at the time and we have two children already.
I wanted these babies and yet my husband (who be a stay at home dad), said "Pick. The baby or me [& the girls]". He didn't go next to me. He didn't even understand now I feel.
I fell into a many-year depression fromo which I can only say that I'm very soon recovering. It was a form of post-traumatic stress disorder. For me, I will be forever changed by it.
Not all women expereince this, however. Whether or not you do really depends on your state of mind when you move about in. Mine was conspicuously different than for many women. The best thing to do is seize someone to talk to before the event. The from the heart side of things. Make sure it's a choice you're ready for. If you are (and I wasn't), it will be a good entity not a bad thing.
Having said that, I believe contained by choice. I think abortions should be legal, past the worst (and ideally), rare.
Good luck to you dear. My thoughts are with you.
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I haven't have an abortion but here is some info on it
http://www.americanpregnancy.org/unplann...
http://teenadvice.about.com/cs/optionsab....
You messed up, you should live beside it. Your fetus is a living thing to. I havent had an abortion, but I won't urge. Do what you think is right and is the best interest of the child.