Can't pocket anal sex?
PS Someone said I should put this in women's robustness for more answers.
Answers: Lots and lots of lube and always use a condom. Don't be rough you could cause desecrate..
First of all - use PLENTY of lubrication. As the anus does not create lubrication naturally (like a vagina would), it is extremely key to use lots of lube. The reason for this being, is that short lube, you are risking tears in your partner's anus, which can cause serious vigour problems.
The reason why he is finding it too painful, is because his anus is unused to the size, and maybe too tense.
I suggest using anal toys, starting from small and working your course up to a toy that is the same size as your penis. You can also use your finger (again next to lots of lube) and gently massage the anus, until he is completely relaxed.
Take your time.
Do not force into the entrance, as this will solely create more pain and the muscles will tense up again. Instead, calmly apply pressure to the anus, and wait for his muscles to relax, which will then adopt the fingers/toys/penis.
Good luck!.
What's wrong with your mouth, your hands, etc? You can enjoy sex a lot of other ways than just drilling someone. You could other get drilled yourself but there's plenty others ways to give and receive mutual contentment. Sounds like your a selfish prick solely wanting to nail someone even if it hurts. Shame on you! Check out the answer to this question, it might enjoy your answer:
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analease or man-delay both are numbing agents get a new boyfriend, yours is watery..
jus grope eachother and give each other blowjobs.....or gain some sex toys or sumthin Just ram it in.No anguish,no gain.
one word: oral you need to trade that dud in and carry a new playmate, or email me and we can work something out i could give you some womb turner and you would get the impression great!.
If you want romantic ideas and sex tips to have the immaculate evening,here are a list of ones that can make the darkness amazing.
If you live together, take one night every month and pretend he is picking you up for a date. Don't see respectively other all day and own him come pick you up like you are going on a date and for the guy, bring her flowers and have a unbroken night planned...go to a hotel, enjoy candles all ready, and pretend it is the first time you kiss, the first time you kind love.
Put candles around the room and slow music and slow dance together. Slowly start kissing, VERY SLOWLY.
Spend a lot of time on foreplay. Kiss every inch of your partner body, front and back, head to toe.
Another honourable thing you can do is every time you and your mate start to get into kissing or touching, DONT GO ALL THE WAY. Do everything but hold sex. Wait a week, and plan a night to have sex, but you still can build it up. That will gross it a hundred times better when you do have sex.
When you kiss your mate, gently touch his or her facade. Most people LOVE that. Also caress your mate hair.
Most people approaching when they have their ears kissed and licked. It feel very good. Also the front and final of the neck feels wonderful when kissed and lick.
Kiss the back of your mates knees and kiss respectively arm and hand.
Put each of your mate fingers in your mouth and run your tongue around them.
I hope these tips help