What really define virginity?

Okay, so I still consider myself a virgin, I wanted to stay one until marrige but my fiance and I are have some problems actually keeping that promise.
I want to know your honest view.
I know some people give attention to it's dumb and I should just contribute up this 'virgin' title that think I hold.
Okay, we enjoy done pretty much everything but intercourse, you know, oral sex.. even gotten very close to intercouse, we have have some quick 'within & out' episodes when we were purely getting too close that should NOT have happen.
Well, I am not 'broken' yet if that counts. The with the sole purpose two times it's ever been within there it hurt close to hell and nothing else happend. So I haven't have the whole sex experience.
Would you still say aloud I'm a virgin?
Any advice to STOP person so sexually attracted to each other?
Answers:

K so i'm never surrounded by the mood anymore! how can i change this?

I would utter if penetration have taken place then you are no longer a virgin.

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Biologically, you are still a virgin.

Otherwise, you are not. Having "in and out" episodes pretty much put an terminate to that. I call those episodes sex.

And why would you want to stop bein sexually attracted? You are heterosexual and unavailable. Run with it newborn!

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First off...you are surrounded by love.unfortunately, the attraction will be here no matter if you smear poo adjectives over yourself or not (ok, that may work...but ew.). In my opinion, once it go in.your are not a virgin any more. You can enjoy sex for 20 years and never have the hymen break...Other times, it may own already been broken from a tampon or sundry other things. If you feel that holding rotten is best...then run for it. But in my feelings, you are in love. Sharing that love in the most intimate process is a beautiful entity. When you are ready, you will know. Whether it be for religious or personal reason, do what you feel is right!

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well if you similar to the bill clinton definition u still are one.
but in my opinion i'd read aloud no, like personality said above, if there be any penetration of any sensitive, you're no longer a virgin.
just b/c the hymen is still intact doesn't aim u are or aren't. some women have sex several times in the past theirs breaks, some are more elastic and merely stretch rather than breaking. and also it can be broken by things bar sex, i had a friend within high academy who got into an calamity on her bike and broke hers, she said. but don't ask me how...

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Penetration happen twice - doesn't matter how long he be moving in and out of you, it's happened already. You are not a virgin anymore. It doesn't tight-fisted you have to bleed for you to lose your virginity.

Some cultures consider a woman who hold had any charitable of sexual experience to have lost her virginity - but I have an idea that if you are living in a developed First World country most people consider you to be a virgin merely if a man's organ has never penetrated you up to that time. This applies to heterosexual people singular, I guess - this definition isn't being tolerant to gays and lesbians.

If you truly love your fiance, just relax and be relieved with respectively other. Don't be angry that you two have 'done it' previously - if it happened out of desire, and you two aren't merely wanting each other for sex later (for me) it isn't wrong.

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I hate to enlighten you but any sexual contact including oral sex is considered sex and therefore you are not a virgin. I estimate it's great that you are waiting to have vaginal intercourse beside your partner until marriage. In this daylight and age that is a big settlement. As far as being attracted to your partner, explicitly just human quality. It's very thorny not to be attracted to someone you love. But I guess if it was comfortable everyone would be a virgin. Try masturbation with your partner, it will sustain quell the urges and still give you a hit and miss to be close with respectively other.

Is this possible?

He's your fiance and your SUPPOSED to be sexually attracted to one another.

The presence or absence of the hymen have nothing whatsoever to do beside virginity. It can't. Not all girls are born next to a hymen, and a newborn can't be a non-virgin. The hymen can also tear at newly about any time within the normal, non-sexual natural life of any girl or woman.

Her first episode of legally consensual vaginal intercourse (not other infiltration, just penis within vagina intercourse) is when a woman gives up her virginity.

Anyone who tries to give an account you differently is also telling you that you are someone's property.

It's probably time that you asked yourself what is the worst that could arise if you and your fiance had protected intercourse.

I'm giving you some links on both contraception and virginity.

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Whether or not you are still a virgin is unable to be determined until you are see by a physician. Anatomically speaking, if your hymen is intact, you are medically considered a virgin. morally & bibically, you are still considered a virgin if you have not have sexual intercourse with a man. If maintain your virginity is important to you, you must recognize how close you are to crossing that line. Even one thrust or partial penatration by a penis or tampon could glibly rupture the thin membrane of the hymen. Unless you enjoy been to the doctor not long to have a pelvic nouns, you cannot be absolutely sure that you are a virgin. Also, if you enjoy been using any tampons during menstruation, that could rationale a rupture of the membrane as well. The solidity of the hymen, and it's potential for rupture, is different for every woman. Some are difficult to tear, others can be torn by the mere pressure of a tampax. I recommend that you exercise chariness in your sexual foreplay if you want to state your virginity.

Is this normal?

You know.. I have this same problem with my . I consider us both virgins ,but ive merely stuck things up it like 4 times.. But not really wide. Im sexually attracted to it.. I just say-so you should both sit down and talk something like it, like i did next to my .