First time sex...?

I'm thinking about have sex for the first time w/a best guy friend & i told him I loved him, I wanna have sex & i wanna do it w/some1 I trust & I trust him but I'm rather nervous around the pain. He's have sex w/4 girls before...should I linger or not? How bad does it hurt?
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First of adjectives you should think in the order of the consequences of having sex similar to getting an std, getting pregnant, Having an unwanted child ,changing diapers within the middle of the night, own to drop out of school etc.
Second of adjectives I don't think that you should enjoy sex with this best friend of yours it might ruin a apt friendship.
My final advice is to better hang around til you get married.
If you do it very soon there wont be anything to anticipate.

And if your conclusion is to have sex formulate sure that use protection and do it with somebody you love and also loves you spinal column.

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it hurts. well it hurt for me. only just wait but you dont want to be a virgin forever. sometimes i aspiration i didnt do it with him make happen he is a jerk. but he be there for me when we did it. he didnt crow at me or complained when we did it cause it be my first time.he actaully helped me. he wasnt a virgin when we did it.but he still my first.for some justification i like that nudge alot.

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it shouldnt hurt that unpromising but it may for just somewhat while. make sure ur on birth control b4 u enjoy sex but if u arent ALWAYS use protection

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Does not hurt I had sex w/ellie 50 times and she said it did not hurt

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if your not planning on doing it because you love him don't do it!!

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if he really loves you he won't do it. if you had self respect you would hang about until you are married. Just because he is a friend does not mean he loves you. If you do this near him you will get hurt emotionally more than physically. who know you may meet the man you want to marry and find out that this friend give you a std from one of the other 4 girls. my advice to you is continue until the time and the person are right.

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mmmm if u really wana have sex, and if u wanna do next to him , I say u should, If you trust him, and are predisposed to give yourself to himmm!! do it, I connote for me it did hurt but not for long , we didnt even use no lube, i suggest u do, that will help ALOTTT!! obtain u all lubricated and similar to that its easier, I think youll be glad you did, very well Have funn! and becareful GOODLUCK! ohh yaa and make sure to own LOTSS OF foreplayy before,- kind sure he gets u excited previously he trys to go In!!~~~

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The first time will hurt a bit. Your body is impracticable to being stretched within that way. It is also promising that you still have an intact Hymen. The Hymen is a ring of terribly thin skin inside your vagina that usually breaks the first time you enjoy sex and the guy penetrates you. This will cause some discomfort and cramp, and there is a moral chance it will bleed slightly (nothing core, just a few drops that may verbs for a while, or not - everyone is different!)

He should treat you gently, no not easy or fast thrusting. For your own comfort, I wouldn't suggest lying and clich?? you're a virgin. Knowing that you are, he is more likely to kind sure you're okay through the whole entry. He can help lift your mind off of it by stimulating you other ways, such as via your clitoris. That should purloin your mind off the headache. :)

You should only touch pain your first time, though. After that, you will be more relaxed (which helps), and your hymen will own been broken already so no strain from that.

And remember, use protection. "Pulling out" is NOT effective! I consider you have a hugely good attitude just about sex, asking about it beforehand you do it. Good on you, be smart, be safe, and delight in yourself!

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If you are have to ask the question "Should I dally or not?", you probably should wait.

What are your reason for wanting to have sex? Is it a short time ago because your friends are? Are you just curious? What is your age?

All contained by all, it is better to keep on for the "right person" the first time you have sex. Be contained by a long term relationship. You own years and years to experience love making and sex, but only one first time. Don't blow that experience.

As for aching, you may experience some if you are nervous. It is your body's automatic tendency to stiff up if you are nervous and that could construct sex painful. As I said above, though, if your first time is next to someone that you are in a long permanent status committed healthy relationship beside, this probably will not be the case.

No situation what you decide, please use a condom. There are instrument too many STDs out in that, especially HPV, where near are no symptoms present and people unsuspectingly transport them. You wouldn't want your first attempt at sex to have durable health ramification.

There are a lot of question you should be asking yourself. I'd think "will it hurt?" should be close to the bottom of the list.

Research and be in motion to a family doctor, a gynecologist or a birth control clinic back you make a result. It'd be a great idea to own your guy go along beside you to get information. If he refuse, you can pretty much tell what species of guy he is. i.e. not really worth your time or your body.

Good luck!

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