What do you assume i should do?
I hold had 2 boyfriends, the first one we just kissed but i didn't really soak up kissing him. The second guy i am with now, i savour kissing him more and he wants to start exploring my body. I'm totally ok with it, and i know he's done that class of stuff before so i pretty sure he'll know what he's doing.
I don't know if i should try to do it myself, at least for the first time, or purely let him do what he knows and see how it go.
Any advice welcome. Thank you.
Answers: Try cunningulus beside him, if he's willing of course.
But I would suggest you find your own pleasure points so you can guide a guy.
However, it is a bit hypocritical of me to speak that because when I met my husband I was a virgin and I let him do adjectives the work and let him find my erotic points..
none of boys you went out next to made you comfortable with the idea of going further, i bet i could comfort you.
you should try it preferably when your going to sleep lately stroke it up and down, and move your fingers in and out, do it so that you feel relaxed and freshly use your imagination.
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i'm in the same boat as you sister. never have an orgasm. clitoral stimulation and hitting the g-spot is supposed to help. also a finger up the anus is supposed to help. doesn't work for me but thats what internet say. men are definately better than trying to do it yourself. if you were enough, near would never be babies in the world. good luck..
this is adjectives up too you, strangers cant give you an answer for this.