Swollen vagina maw....comfort me..:(

I was a virgin and apparently extremely tight even for an Asian girl. The first time hurt really bad and I be quiet about it but afterwards he saw through it and stopped before he finished. The second time, he stopped again because it still hurt but then I didn't want him to not surface pleasure so I faked that it didn't and he started again in a different position contained by hopes of alleviating the pain. he went pretty in a hurry trying to finish as quickly as he could because he was intuition guilty over my pain. Both times were beside condoms and now...that area is a lil itchy and for a while swollen. It doesn't hurt or anything...is there something wrong? This is kind of mortifying to talk about but I want to ask here until that time telling my boyfriend and making him feel guilty almost it. :(

Answers:    hmm. im not quite sure what to tell you, exactly the pallid discharge kinda sounds like gonorrhea but if its not there anymore im sure youve get nothing to worry around. but some girls are just tight. the first time i tried to have sex he just got it in and it hurt so doomed to failure we had to stop, so your not alone, only we didnt try again. i would run in to see a ob-gyn, since youve started having sex and since this is compassionate of an irregular problem. and he shouldnt feel guilty about it, parley to him about it and maybe hold him go the doctor with you so he know whats going as well. i mean it is sex and if its near someone you love wouldnt they want to make sure its as pleasurable as possible?.
It could be your allergic to the type of condom he is using, or it could be thrush, this causes symptoms of itchiness, wan pussy stuff and sometimes does have an odour. But overall you should not just dance through the pain to satisfy him. For him to know how to penetrate you you have to be aroused satisfactory and not scared try working on that first before you enjoy penetrative sex again. this is normal darl!
you may be allergic to the crap condoms are made out of but apart from that use more lube!
Im a sml girl to so i know what you mean I find extra lube (spit even works EEEWWWWWWWWW) will stop the maw rubbing so bad and will alleviate the problem and trust me it does get better.
Do NOT sacrifice yourself for his pleasure, please never ever do that D: Go to the doctor and hold some tests run, you could be allergic to the condom or really sick. KY JELL is the answer for your Question..
Your body has a moment ago experienced the trauma of breaking your hymen, it is natural for your vagina to discharge after having sex for the first time.

There is a slight possibility of thrush person present, due to the yellow in the discharge, but this can be cleared by showering normally without using soaps. If the discharge continues, take a course of antibiotics.

Your boyfriend should recognize that you will need time for your body to heal and when it comes to have sex again, persuade him to spend more time in foreplay, docile stimulation produces natural juice flow from your vagina, to allow easier access.

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