Period, Boyfriend assist!?
Well heres my problem i get very bulky periods where at hours of darkness i sometimes leak on the bed maybe twice surrounded by one week! and I dont want to ruin his mattress! Ive stayed there before but never have my period while staying overnight!
What can I do?
Hes a really great guy I just dont know what to right to be heard to him!
Any advice?
thanks
Holly
Answers: Hi Hun,
If I be you I would talk to him about it I don`t know say,
Im worried about moving surrounded by with you because when im on my period I tend to slick on the bed sometimes, and I dont want to ruin your mattress, im sure he would be fine with it,
Maybe get a towel to sleep on or one of the mat that you could lay down on the bed (people who wet the bed use them)
Its not all that impossible normally guys understand,
I remember when i be dating my now husband and I was at his house on the hours of darkness of my period, (didnt know i was on it)
woke up the subsequent morning to find what looked like a battle have happened underneath me! I was mortified! But Todd didnt diligence he said Baby dont worry about it and we laugh! We still laugh about it because of the horror stricken frontage i had!
Anyways everything should be fine and if he loves you then he wont verbs about it!
Good Luck
Jess.
Sweetheart, GET ON THE PILL! Lol, I'm serious, it will give you lighter period, and possibly less periods throughout the year. Talk to your doctor roughly speaking birth control pills, like Seasonique, Yaz, Yasmine, etc... If you don't want to get on birth control, wear a tampon and a wipe during the night, and try to get contained by the habit of waking up within the middle of the night to change your tampon. Either set an alarm on your clock, or even better your cellphone so you won't stir up your boyfriend. Perhaps the safest way is to not wear a tampon during the night contained by order to avoid TMI, but I've been wearing tampons for years adjectives day long, and I've been simply fine. Whatever you're comfortable with, go for it, and I need you and your boyfriend the best. He sounds like a cool guy, so if it ever happens purely explain it to him. You should be comfortable enough to talk around things like that if you're moving in together.
I hold the same problem though, what I do is either wear an overnight wipe, and put a pantiliner behind it just surrounded by case it drips back, or put a small washcloth within between your underwear and your pjs in both the front and back, that mode even if it leaks through your underwear, it wont leak on the sheets. ;).
Well if you wear a tampon after wear a tampon and a pad to bed. Or if you wear pads afterwards wear two pads at once. Overlap them, don't wear the on top of respectively other. Also if he wants you to move in near him, more than likely he loves you. You would be totally embarassed if you bled on his bed but he will understand. The first time I did on my boyfriend's bed I be mortified. But he smiled and hugged me. Told me everything was alright and to go carry cleaned up. He stripped the bed, washed the sheets, and scrubed the matress. Don't worry Darling! If he loves you he won't be too knotty on you. Hey I had same a problem, you can wearing a long pads and wear a tights boxer they oblige u that u won't get messing and or put alarm on and wake up stir to bathroom then change it afterwards go to sleep, or you can put towel on his bed, then u laid down on it, u don't hold to worried about...hope help u :).
If you've be with him for a year and are now going to move contained by with him, you should be able to bring up to date him anything. Talk to him. And also ask your OBGYN/doctor about ways to prevent yourself from leaking on the bed or someplace else. They probably would want to know in the order of the heavy period too. You can also opt for a special mattress... it is used when associates wet the bed so it doesn't wreck the mattress or sheets. When you know your time is coming up put that on the bed, although you will have to be totally honest near your guy..
im fifteen. and even i do that. it sucks, but some girls' periods are majorlly heavy. i suggest any going to a gyno about a pill, or, (this is what i do. >) wear a SUPER PLUS tampon AND two overnight pads.
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i hope this help, hun. !.
Put a tower underneath you when you sleep...or two towels.
If your flow is so much that you're leaking throughout the night, you might want to consider taking birth control pills a moment ago to regulate your flow (usually makes your flow less & more manageable)..
all right id say NOT to wear tampons because of the risk but deepen maybe there close to diapers but big you should probably talk to him bout it first so he don't freak one night when he go to touch you and you are wearing a dipare i agree...i think that you should wake up surrounded by the middle of the night and change it..save and you use pads, use Kotex overnight...that's the pad i use because i hold really heavy flow.
Not that I'm in agreement next to you moving in with this guy, but a moment ago get some birth control. That should help. And if you're moving surrounded by with him, you should be able to consult to him about it. well that happen to me sometimes.
now if you've been dating him long plenty to move in with him,
he should comprehend.
i mean its not your fault..
You could obtain up half way through the darkness to change the product .. or try super tampons when i use pads that's what happen for me...try a tampon or menstrual cup.
it souds ike u need a menstrul cup tell him if he really care bout u he'll understand