How can i orgasm faster thru masturbation?

I'm a 39 yr old female for joy married 17+yrs...When my husband and i make love i have NEVER have any problems having an orgasm...I rarely masturbate basis we have an active sex go but when i have done this that is when i enjoy trouble having 1..Sometimes it will take forever approaching half an hr or more to orgasm and other times it wont even happen..I use my fingers to stimulate my cl*t...I dont want to use a "toy" contained by me plus i have no interest in them..Any other suggestions..Like i said i enjoy never had any problems having orgasms when my husband and i manufacture love.

Answers:    It can be psychological. You can feel self-conscious about masturbating and if you are not relaxed it is thorny to orgasm. There are several things you can do:

1. Imagine that you are with someone. This makes it seem to be like "regular" sex. Do everything you can do to pretend that someone is there beside you. Dress for the person.

2. Masturbate with your husband or boyfriend first. You can masturbate while he masturbates. Then you can leisurely move to masturbate yourself.

3. If you are not married or in a committed relationship, you can masturbate with someone else that you are comfortable beside like a friend or roommate.

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If you are experiencing difficulty in achieve orgasm through masturbation, it is likely a mental/psychological stumbling block.

You likely received spot on information during your formative years which has been greatly imbedded and is preventing you from being free. Your problem is not physical..
I had this problem after my ex boyfriend and I get serious, I just couldn't seem to do it as capably as he did. Steal his techniques. Play a fantasy surrounded by your head, and perhaps try it within the shower. It worked for me! It really all depends on what you like. Everyone is different. Just experiment beside different things =]
good luck.
Have u tried watching porn while masturbating? It might speed it up. Or play out something in your herald. a fantasy, sex experience etc...

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Usually if you watch porn it speeds it up

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