Girls who own already lost near virginity please give a hand!

ohk well me and my bf are planning to have sex soon and im worried of how much it will hurt so can you give me advice on how to trademark it hurt less. how much did it hurt for you? hes fingered me before and that also hurt for a while so please help

Answers:    We're going to skip the insulting preliminaries about "person too young" and not knowing your own mind. I'm going to assume that you are indeed, a responsible, mature young woman.

You're a big girl, now, and you can make your own damned decision.

To answer your question: It's different for every girl. Usually what causes strain and/or bleeding when you lose your virginity is the stretching or tearing of the hymen. This is where it get subjective: some girls have already torn their hymen by the time they have sex, usually as piece of a normal, active lifestyle. Other girls own stretchy, or "elastic" hymens, which stretch instead of tearing. Some girls are born entirely without hymens, while some girls own really thick ones. The point of this is that each girl is extremely rare, which makes it a little not easy to answer your question.

In most cases, there is some discomfort near initial penetration, and if you have a hymen, nearby will probably be pain, and a little bleeding (After adjectives, you're not used to having a penis surrounded by there!), but it's usually mild to moderate and fades like lightning. In order to make things as wonderful as humanly possible, it is SUPER-DUPER, AMAZINGLY historic that you take things slow the first few times. Make sure you're fully aroused, and please, for the love of all things sexual, use some water-based lube (petroleum-based lube can dissolve latex condoms). If you experience discomfort or distress, slow down, and wait a bit before proceeding.

Also, please be aware that for most girls, the first few times are caring of disappointing when it comes to the actual sex...it takes a while to find your rhythm and discover what you like. So, progress forth, be safe, and, above all, HAVE FUN!

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okay I'm going to be honest..its goin to hurt..if you were hurt when he fingered you,,,its gonna hurt having sex.and it adjectives depends on how old u are...how ready u r..how big he is..and if u rele wanna do it...the one and only advice i can give is tht if u r really wanting to do it...DONT do it surrounded by a car (very uncomfortable)...stay on bottom..let him be on top (hurts for a time less) and try reading some magzazines like cosmopolitan and ones like that.they provide really good ideas or tips for sex...and they in actuality WORK..but i wld just advise not to do it..u perceive extreamly guilty afterwards.just watever u want to do!! good luck! :) It does hurt when he inserts himself into you, because you are getting stretched out. The stomach-ache doesn't last long, maybe 5 or 6 thrusts. Make sure he go slow until it doesn't hurt anymore. The fingering does help a little, because it slightly stretches you out. Just formulate sure he goes slow for a little, and use lube!!
You will probably bleed somewhat too...
um it depends on the size... u just have to relax... it is totally different from anyone fingered. My first time... i jumped when he stuck the head surrounded by... but some people say that it simply hurts the first time... that's a lie... cause approaching i said... it depends on the size... but just try to stay relaxed and don't think in the order of it so hard... just agree to it happens... every bodies first time is different. it doesn't hurt that much. when you are in moment you own so much adrenaline and natural lubrication that you do not feel plentifully of pain. don't worry, thinking something like it too much and planning it will make you focus on the pain, basically make sure it;s the right time and person and it will adjectives work out. .
It will probably hurt the first time, but bear with it it does take better ;)
You may also notice a little bleeding afterwards, this will be from your hymen self broken and nothing to worry roughly speaking. Take it slowly and gently and try to relax. o0k first of all, are you miley cyrus? if so email me..im on your "patterson" myspace( zach brown near the pic of the guy on the wake board)...if not forget roughly speaking that...ok so you should masturbate with a dildo or something along those lines just to enlarge it up.start slow then build up speed...if it still hurts then of late let him know that he needs to start slow, im sure he'll fathom out cause i know i would (im a 15 yr old boy) and it feel better for the guy if its tight lol.
well for me, it didnt hurt that bad...i show when it first went in, it hurt rather bit and occasionally while it was going on.

If you dont think you are in position for it, don't do it. there is no need to rush
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the initial infiltration is going to hurt and your gong to bleed...
but in the end its going to perceive great
oo and be prepared to feel like you own ran a triathalon in the morning.
For me it hurt pretty desperate the first time but lube def helped! Just relax to. dont stress about it hurting so much. i promise it will not hurt as bleak if you just relax. I strongly suggest you not doing this right now. I know we are total strangers, but trust me. I merely don't think you're ready. Try to hold rotten a couple more years.Fifteen is too young..
"me and my bf are planning to have sex soon"


It will hurt really impossible with that plan/attitude.
Wait until you are a bit older and own another attitude.

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It doesn't hurt THAT bad, and if it's his first time too, it'll probably hurt even less.. i dont remember it hurting. so i cant aid you too much. but try to relax. it will be beter if you can chill out..
use lubrication oil For me it felt approaching a nail being hammer through my hand. .
Umm if your were fingured later you've already lost your virginity.
When the vain is broken it bleeds and hurts like hell.
Some people are different afterwards others.
so someone plain can be on a completely different level then yours.
But since his penis is WAY wider and thicker afterwards his fingure, it might hurt more then the figuring.
At first it will hurt but as copious times as you have sex the pain turns into pleasure.
So I guess you can't really stop it from hurting

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