Rough sex...?
Answers: Talk to him when neither of you are within the mood, not just directly after sex. Explain to him have sex isn't worth it for you if he isn't going to be sensitive. Explain that while he may be having fun, and it feel great for him, he's hurting you.
Second, take charge. Be on top, etc. You control it more. He doesn't stipulation to be the one in charge every time.
Send him my process I could teach him a article or too LOL Take it, or tell him you will not do it if he cannot do as you asked, if its fire he will stop... LOL
Rough sex can be a form of maltreat if it is unwanted by one of the partners. So if he is not respecting you when you explain to him to be more gentle, how is your relationship next to him in Life going to progress? Is he really worth have? Already he is ignoring your wishes. Lot to think roughly speaking there. put in the picture him straightforward, if he is really sorry then he won't do it again, some ancestors have fetish but he needs to respect his partner also..