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It's been a year since my wife have our second child and she has snaped right support into shape. At 5'5" and 115 pounds she only weigh 10 more pounds than she did when we got married. She have only a particularly few stretch marks and her boobs hold sagged rather due to breast feeding both kids. I contemplate she looks better than she did before kids, ya know more hips rather bigger butt, great stuff to me. I tell her adjectives the time how beautiful and sexy she is. Here's the problem. She won't wear a bathing suit, won't wear longera(I know it's spelt wrong, sorry) She won't even agree to me see her naked surrounded by the light unless I sneek a glance. So besides telling her adjectives the time how sexy I think she is what else can I do to be paid her love her body as much as I do? She says I relay her she's hot because I'm her husband and that doesn't count.
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I understand what she's going through. I be aware of the same bearing about my body. I own two kids.
I'm petite and everyone "thinks" I'm happy b/c I "look" so great after have to kids. But the truth is I feel ugh. I purely recently started wearing a bathing suit again. I come up with the reason I did is b/c my boyfriend knock some sense into me when we were at the coast. He made me take a look around and look at the females wearing bathing suits. Some be a perfect 10 and some be well agree to's say not so much the 10!
This is a rugged one. But I just suggest you ALWAYS remind your wife how lovely she is. Buy her a pretty night gown that make her feel sexy and isn't kinky. The more she feel sexy the more kinky she might want to be! :)
Take it slow see what happens.

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sounds approaching she needs to have a chat to a counselor. she sounds like she have no self confindence anymore. Sometimes after having kids we do this caring of thing. we deem we dont look good anymore and it brigs us down.

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You must be hurt audible range what she said. You are her friend and lover too, not only husband and she should not transport your praise for granted. Tell her this. You have to convince her that you are not lying. A short leave with plenty of time for two of you will relieve.

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Its a woman point. After I had my daughter I become so insecure about my body its crazy. I guess adjectives you can do is keep relating her how beautiful she is and you dont attention about anything thats changed more or less her body because it came from her have your kids which is a even more beautiful point. You can also show her pictures of people whose bodies get really bad afer have a baby and that she should be grateful its not that discouraging. I got fruitless stretch marks, disappeared over flab on my stomach AND my boobs got SMALLER than they be before I get pregnant after I stopped breastfeeding! Sooooo she should be happy!

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I am a mom of 3 children I was a fully clad size before have them (5'4", 120, 38C) and I now weigh 160-162 pounds, beside breasts that sag due to breastfeeding as okay but I have never be self conscious about my consignment or body image and I attribute that to my own self confidence. I know that I am stunning inside first then out even more so because I am a woman who have birthed 3 children. Perhaps your wife needs to see her true aesthetic and know her worth before she can adopt anyone else seeing it.

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I own to commend you on feeling this approach. Not all husbands close to extra baggage. Honestly 115 lbs is on the scraggy side. I'm an inch taller, and I weigh 60 more lbs, so I have even more to love! :)

I would enunciate to SHOW her more that you find her sexy, instead of telling her. I know that may be confusing. Women approaching to feel sexy. You could bring her some flowers, cards, etc. Plan a romantic get-away.

Maybe she requests some new clothes to accentuate her untried shape. If she finds it hard to find modern "mommy" clothes, it could depress her, so let her stir with her friends to find something nice.

Caress her. Kiss her. Tell her she's attractive. She needs to hear it, even if she tell you it doesn't count. She is listening.

Take her out and show her rotten. Tell her that the men are checking her out, even if they aren't. It will make her surface sexy.

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Ya know...I went thru that not reaction sexy mode for a long time...I've not been as tiny as your wife is in years (since big school). It's been three years since my youngest be born...and I still won't wear a bathing suit lol

Anyway...really the only item you can do is just support her. Now that the little one is a year old, enjoy a romantic weekend away if you have grandparents closeby. I a short time ago kinda "snapped" out of it. My husband just compensated the compliments...bought me a couple of pretty items...and showed me attention that I needed. Try to have a date darkness at least once a month...a moment ago for the two of you...I know it's hard effect of finding sitters...but you two need your time out. That help me feel more similar to a wife again and not so stressed and worried about my gut and C portion scar from my kids. Kinda feel like we be back within time...before the kids when I feel super sexy to my hubby.

That's what worked for me!

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She needs a confidence boost. Take her out to a nice dinner and a movie.
Having kids is a wonderful entry, but can make a women quality mixed feelings just about her new post pregnancy body. You can report to her a million times that she's beautiful, but she won't listen if the confidence isn't nearby.
Be patient and she'll eventually come around to accepting her spanking new shapier body.
You sound approaching a good husband and she should be grateful to hold you.