Ladies, What is up with the feminine sex drive?

My wife of two years gave birth to our son for a time over 8 months ago. When we first met we couldn't get plenty of each other surrounded by the bedroom. While she was pregnant she started to lose interest which I can construe, and I dealt beside it. After she had our son, she have absolutely NO interest for nearly 3 months, which, again I can understand, and deal with. The finishing four months are what I don't understand. She'll jump for weeks without wanting anything, and afterwards for one day she'll be this crazy nympho, and later weeks of nothing again. I guess what I don't have a handle on is that she says she have great orgasms with me, and no I don't construe she's lying or faking because near is (without getting too graphic here), physical evidence of her orgasms that would be rock-hard to fake, and frankly we own a very honest relationship and report each other everything. My sound out is if it's that good don't you imagine she'd want to do it more than we do? and is this normal?Could in that still be post partum issues?
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Its totally normal. Sex is nearly more than the orgasm for women, its about the closeness and the love - which are two things that she is getting plenty of respectively day from your child. The more independent your child become the more regular the sex will be. The reason she turns into a nympho every presently and then is because she is craving the orgasm module of sex. From my own experience I would say you'll be waiting until your child's approx 2 in the past things in the bedroom start to return to pre-baby. My partner turned to porn movies and that was fine by me!

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It's probably lately her hormones getting back to majority. Being pregnant really throws you off! ;)

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Sorry bro, I don't estimate that's normal.

Talk to her more or less it. Tell her that you need her more.

It's not cool to not bring busy for weeks at a time.

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Let's see - you enjoy an 8 month old babe-in-arms - probably still needs at least possible one feeding during the darkness, many during the daytime, diapers, laundry, housekeeping, cooking dinners, doing dishes, playing with kid, bathing baby, (you did not mention if she works out of the home or not) and glory knows what else. She might basically be too tired until her hormones tell her to attack you.

My son did not sleep throught the darkness until he was 20 months older. The last entry I wanted to do after taking carefulness of him and all of the household stuff (including the courtyard work) was enjoy sex. The exception was during ovulation - next it was adjectives I wanted to do and to heck near the house and yard.

Ask your wife why she isn't as interested as recurrently - then, listen to the answer. Then, try to get arrangements to solve the problem.

Also, you still have a totally young little one. As he gets elder, your wife will be more used to playing the role of mommy AND wife together and will also be getting more rest.

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you necessitate to try some diffrent postions or role playing because women like spontaneous sex and not the usual item all the time along next to unexecpted gifts, poems and just self remained that they are goddesses is a big plus





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