I can't hold sex because it's too damn PAINFUL. Help me please?

I'm 23 and I recently tried have sex for the first time, with my boyfriend. We've tried at lowest a couple of times but we can't make it work because it HURTS too much for me. I'm aroused, or at tiniest I'm really wet but when he tries to creep into me it's extremely painful, and I completion up pushing him away and almost crying telling him to stop. He’s tried taking it slow but neither of us can integer out what’s wrong. I'm wondering if maybe he didn't moderately pop my cherry (so to speak) properly the first time. There was a tiny bit of blood the first time but I don't know because it still hurts similar to hell. I'm actually still sore as I'm sitting here typing this. Any planning, besides going to the doctor? [HELPFUL AND SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY!]
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No more accepted wisdom, go to a doctor. You may hold fibroids. Get checked out, having sex is not suppose to hurt...

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I know you said you don't want to go to the doctor, but it really is your best preference. Discomfort during sex can be a symptom of a serious issue and you shouldn't take it delicately! If your boyfriend is not an extremely endowed man, then it is not polite for you to still be having misery after the first couple times. If he *is* large, later you might give it a couple more tries until your body become accustomed to his size. Either way, I do suggest an ob/gyn call round. It's really not that awkward, they are trained to hear about stuff resembling that, so don't be scared.

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Is something wrong with me? Please lend a hand.?

I would also at least consider a ring to your ob/gyn.if you don't have one, please procure one before you hold sex so that you can have responsible vigilance should any problems arise later such as infection. Ok, adequate lecture.

I know you said you are aroused, but you are probably still subconsciously greatly nervous which can head to tightening of the vaginal muscles. Be sure you are taking enough time and not rushing into it. The reality that now you enjoy this added pressure of a couple a failed attempts will lone add to it, so why not lighting some candles, pour some wine, and put on some romantic music. Have you tried having him insert a smaller intention, such as his finger, into you first to see how that feels? Have plenty of lubricant contiguous in bag you dry out easily. You may not know this on the other hand since you are new to intercourse. You might even hold him bring you to orgasm manually/orally first and then compassionately begin trying to gain access to you. Again, if all of this doesn't work, I would importantly suggest seeing a doctor for furthur explanation. Good luck!

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I'm not sure but I just go through my first experience with Ovarian Cysts.Your symptoms sounds comfortable and you can even research yourself on the Net and also see Ob/Gyn Dr..to be on the safe side.That humane of suck that's very sore but anyways research and schedule an appt near your DR.Ovarian cysts symptoms are irregular periods,and dull pain while intercousing,and pain contained by the abdomen...I be kept overnight so i did pain pills to appropriate at home so I feel great very soon and this happened to me on 5/19/2007...So don't um and ah if you need more info,.

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I've been contained by this same exact position. And I remember what it feels close to, it's terrible! Alot of girls don't expiriance it, because they are born in need a hymen or just something, much smaller number than with what we enjoy. Mine was almost completely covered, and it took in the region of 5 times of trying to break it. You just enjoy to be completely aroused, relaxed, and in a comfortable position. You may lately not be able to handIe spasm as much as other. Try a little bit at a time, and near will be progression..I promise. It was roughly 3 years ago, It's deffinatly worth it in the end.

(I also disgust it when I tell my "viginity" stories to my friends, and theirs be so much better, and easier for them. It wasn't painful for them at adjectives. And I hated that! But trust me, this IS possible, It happen to me!)

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Maybe you and your boyfriend should grip in more forplay. Also try using a lubricant and relax.

For girls onlymy first time..?

Take your time!! I get married and lost my virginity last year, and it took me give or take a few..hmmmm.2 months of doing it almost everyday before he be able to completely budge in and for me to not be surrounded by pain. And I didn't hold a problem or disease( I went to a gyno ).another item that could be a problem is you might have a tilted uterus. Because even when he could stir in adjectives the way, I would still quality discomfort, and the gyno told me it was because I be tilted inside, and that there really wasn't much to do but try different positions until we find the one that works for me. But lately be patient.