Should going to the gynecologist hurt?

Hi-

I'm 23, and I've been to the gynecologist two times within the past (dif. doctors). Both times the exams really hurt- the anguish was so fruitless I started to cry, and I was immensely uncomfortable afterwards.

Both doctors said this throbbing was because my hymen is intact and I enjoy a relatively small vaginal opening. They even used the small sized instruments, but it still hurt. Has anyone else be through this? All the other women I know say the exam never hurts them at adjectives. Did I have two desperate doctors, or is it really supposed to be that painful if you're small and a virgin? Is here anything I can do to make the experience smaller amount painful? I really don't want to budge back this year, but I know I should. Any suggestions at adjectives would be appreciated. Thanks
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I have never found it bumpy. I also don't have an intact hymen. You might consider have your doctor cut or break your hymen, unless it is really important to you that it is intact.

If the GYN is bleeding, you might have a problem when you do own sex. You may have a especially thick or life-size hymen.

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No I enjoy never had it hurt if you only relax then it should be fine. I would ponder maybe you should use tampons or if you haven't have sex then that could be why it hurt so fruitless you are still small in that nouns.

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Generally, the exam doesn't hurt, but there are cases where on earth it can, and yours is one of them

I would suggest taking some Advil ahead of time. Also, if you ever go to a strange doctor, let him know of your situation ahead of time, that bearing they'll be prepared.

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no, the doctors are probably right, if your hymen hasnt be been broken i could see why it would hurt a touch. i still have that problem occasionally when i catch my annual done. but mostly its just really self-conscious...

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I clutch it u r not sexually active. Try some playing beside toy, if you don't want to start having sex. Sure will lend a hand.

Recently when me and my boyfriend have sex, after ward i start to bleed brownish blood.?

it should not hurt ,one time they made me bleed though

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Hello, I am 32 and I have have the same experience. I am not a virgin, I hold a child. For some reason, the doctors relay me that my cervix is up so far that it is hard to conquer. I have well-educated that the more you relax, the easier and less bleeding the experience will be. You have to engender sure your buttocks and back remain down on the table and sort sure you breathe in and out. It also help to take your mind stale of what you are having done. You may be cause you muscles to tense up by stressing over the exam earlier it begins. If your muscles are stressed, then it will be scratchy due to your vagina not opening resembling it should. The vagina was made to expand, virgin or not. Just try to remain as gentle as possible. Good Luck on your next stop by, I go subsequent month.

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hey, i'm in the same boat as you. haha, did i voice boat? ok, sorry, sorry.

my last two (and only) gyne exams be pretty painful, i be almost in tears. they didn't do it the wrong route (of course i wasn't there, but i can without risk assume that a gyne knows how to do a simple exam). i am a physician myself and so i know if my doctor be examining me right.

some people are purely small. i am pretty small (105 lbs, 5'4"). so perhaps that also comes next to the territory. sex is sore too. not sure what to do to make it better.

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My first exam be quite sensitive, I was a virgin as in good health. That is the main grounds for the pain. Even today, I am married, and I still touch pressure from the exams, but they are not painful. Take some tylenol or ibuprofen in the past hand. You really stipulation to stay with the exams, they are a markedly good preventive determine. They can find things early and treat them. Relax your pelvic muscles, to be precise the best way to slow the misery!