Im 18 and basically recently get sexually active, my boyfriend and i have haved intercourse like more or less 9 times and?

still too painful, whats wrong? my boyfriend get really frustrated and says its his guiltiness but its not, it just hurts really impossible, it burns a little
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If it have been 9 times and you are burning you may enjoy contracted an STD. Have yourself checked out. Go to Planned Parenthood if you don't have a doctor.

Why does my overy hurt??

Pain is ordinary when you first begin intercourse. Try taking it slow and using alot of lubrication. If after a while, it still hurts alot, I would suggest you see a doctor.

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Stop have intercourse. Save yourself for marriage. You'll have a feeling better about yourself, and next you won't have to verbs about whether or not this guy is going to hand down or stay.
Physically, you might have an infection of some considerate. See a gynecologist.

Where is it?

sounds like he isn't giving you adequate time to "warm up"
Women are slower to arousal than men, and it can cart a lot of foreplay to bring back your juices flowing. Most young-looking guys get an erection at the drop of a hood, and expect to have intercourse right away.he requests to learn some restraint and some foreplay techniques that you close to.
You can also use a water base lubricant like KY to comfort.

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You could be lacking lubrication: are you drizzly enough earlier he penetrates you? Some women don't produce enough colloquial lubrication even when they are really aroused, you can get KY jelly or any of the Durex lubricants.

If you are using a condom (hope you are), other choose water-based lubricants besides the two recommended above. Don't use baby grease and petroleum jelly with condoms, or any oil-based lubricants because it can interrupt the condom. However, most condoms already have lubricant beside it in the packet but this may not be ample if you are not very damp before permeation.

One reason why you may not be terrifically wet is that you are only just too nervous when doing it (since sex is still to some extent new to you). Women thieve longer to get turned on compared to men, so you may requirement more foreplay to get fully aroused. Talk to your bf nearly trying more foreplay, perhaps receive him to make you drizzly by fingering you first. Fingering helps you relax - and return with him to coat his fingers with some lubricant back putting them into you. If your b.f has a big penis, you may purely need abit more time to seize used to him because you may still be very tight for him.

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some woman are allergic to latex if you are using condoms (and i hope you are) that may be the problem try sheep skin condoms instead, they deal in them in impossible to tell apart section as latex condoms try a Walgreens or CVS.
It could be that your vagina be torn during intercourse previously and has not have time to heal ( and when i vote torn i dont mean your hymen) perchance around the entrance to the vangina i know it may be uncomfortable for you but bring a hand mirror and dance take a height perhaps you can see the problem if it is on the outside of the vagina. if to be precise the case dispense it some time and it will heal
or possibly he could be to big and your body needs time to adjust to the size of his penis try have him take it really slow and relax , it could also be that you are not raining enough they go lube at Walgreens and CVS try the warming liberal (very nice)

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I have the same problem when my boyfriend and I started have sex. It was extremely stinging, but he was tolerant with me. I found that throbbing and a burning sensation can be the cause of several factor.

First off, try a few different lubrications, we found this really enhanced our sex life and ease the pain. Stay away from oil-based lubrications; they can result in infection. If it's water base, it's usually safe, but other read the small print. If you're not sure, simply don't use that brand or type.

Another thing that could be hurting, exspecially if it burns, is the brand of condom or the drought of one. I still get a burning sensation if we use regular condoms, but I find that Trojan Lubricated Condoms or Trojan Twisted Pleasure Condoms releave that burning premonition and the pain that's as a rule caused by friction.

Lastly, it could be the position you are surrounded by while making love. Certain positions, like doggy style, allow a "deeper" sensation explicitly very raw for inexperienced women. While something like a spooning position, which does not allow such a gaping penetration, could be more nice. If you want to stop some of the painful sensations choose positions that don't allow him to creep into so deep inside, until your body is used to the sensation. If you want to speed this process up, along next to having some fun, fingering can be an intamate piece of pre-sex activites. Fingering allows the vigina to stretch gently. If you are more relaxed contained by that general nouns, then the anguish should lesson.

Hope this helps!

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FIRST OF ALL IF HE'S GETTING UPSET AND FRUSTRATED THAT'S ONLY GOING TO MAKE YOU TENSE . YOU NEED TO BE RELAXED AND BE IN THE MOOD! DON'T JUST DO IT BECAUSE HE WAN T'S TO! IT WILL TAKE SOME TIME FOR YOU TO REALLY START GETTING SOMETHING OUT OF IT! BUT IF HE CAN'T BE PATIENT AND UNDERSTANDING THEN HIM KNOWING YOUR SITUATION HE SHOULD HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT IT BEFORE GETTING RAPPED UP IN IT. JUST TAKE IT SLOW AND IF HE DON'T LIKE IT KICK HIM TO THE CURB AND THEN TELL HIM THANKS!! YOU JERK





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