Why do females gossip down about eachother? Aren't we adjectives suppose to stick together?


I mean guys never do it. Women are constantley judge and jealous of others. Is it because we're other going to be in compotition with one another? I'm one to grant when my guy is talking to a really pretty girl, I'll pick out something on her to label her appear less attractive. My up to date years resolution has be to compliment other females and accept that someone will other be prettier, skinner and richer than you. Why can't the rest of us do it?

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We seem to be trained that agency by society.

Guys do talk nearly each other. I suggest that is is freshly less catty.

When I worked surrounded by a school, it be very effortless to discipline boys. They were pretty up front beside their aggression. It was noticeable to us and we had wonderful non bullying technique. Smile, it is cute to watch a few boys who three minutes ago trying to eliminate each other, cohesive to work it out together so they can go play again.

But girls!

Girls are subtle in their bullying. It is zilch overt. It is "cutting", gossip, usually tremendously crafty and hard to discern. It take a very virtuous eye to see this before the target cries. Sometimes if it is not caught it can go on for a totally long time. Funny, generally this ways I found begins contained by Grade 1 but does not really blossom until grades 5 to 7 when the girls become more sophisticated. There is the usual slander, comments about dress, and only just avoidance (cutting). I HATED dealing with these situations because once hormones see in, it can be callous.

I do not know why this is but I saw it so often over my 14 years contained by the school system. This is where on earth it begins. Once they are into the superior grades, where at hand are cliques, it gets worse. Now they divide into groups, popular girls, goth girls, sports girls, etc. It is not indistinguishable for all girls. I have one who hung with boys and never get into it at all. Both daughters be very popular and pious students. The younger was a posh princess type and she bought into cattiness near a passion. I be sometimes disgusted and called her on it. It is newly the nature of the child I reflect.

Women are taught through the medium that there are ideals of make-up to be striven for. They compete on looks. They compete for boys. They compete for popularity. What blows me away is they usually blame the other woman if the MAN is unfaithful. As if he be the victim.

I be one of the bottom feeders in glorious school. Dorky and overweight. I never developed that cattiness because I be such a loner. I am heterosexual but I have other admired a beautiful woman or clothing, and I own always thought a compliment is the unblemished ice breaker. Heck, how complex is it to say a few nice words to someone?

Anyhow, I love your attitude. Pass it around lots. Women necessitate to learn that we are not the opponent, we are sisters on the planet. However this nastiness is present within every culture.

I like your attitude. All we can do is start near ourselves and hope the ripple effect works!

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Right on Kari. We obligation to support each other. I love your attitude and your New Year's resolution.

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If you mull over guys don't talk something like each other, you are greatly misled. It is a human all your own.
I think your resolve to be more accepting is a flawless one, but stop worrying about what everyone else does, you own no control over that and it is a waste of your time, not to mention irritating to others.

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well it is because it is trhe call of the windy we have to take our hands on a man and own him do what we say and the girls who hold guys have worked so concrete for that and they want to keep it that means of access!!



good charge on the resolution though!

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I agree 100%. Why when a man cheats do we get so batty at the other woman. You should kick the guys a** because hes the dog. I agree we should stick together. We own so much stress and sh** to put up with. Men, kids, looking suitable all the damn time. And nonetheless if another girl looks better than us we don't evn talk to them and repugnance them. I do the same darn point. But that is what women do. I enjoy accepted that someone will other be prettier, skinner and richer than me...

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You need to dangle around with different ancestors. I know plenty of guys who are very competitive and judgmental of respectively other, and would think nought of putting another guy to make themselves look better, so it's a self-esteem thing, not a femininity thing.
My feminine friends and I are very loving and supportive of respectively other - we constantly compliment each other, and uplift each other even when we surrounded by "competition" with respectively other (flirting with guys at a dowel, for example). But we'll never try to steal another's guy or try to out-flirt her once she's staked a claim or called dibs. (This is pretty intermittent, since we usually are looking for different types of guys anyway).

I think it have a lot to do next to self-confidence. If you don't believe you are very pretty or desirable, next you won't believe that HE thinks so any, and you'll be worried that he might find some other girl to be more desirable. So you'll put her down to keep yourself on top, but it still doesn't solve the core problem.

My friends and I own heard of this sort of problem, but we've other found it unfathomable, because we have be so supportive of each other other lots years that our self-confidence is strong and we don't need constant validation to know we're pretty and smart and sweet and adjectives that good stuff. If a guy doesn't resembling one of us, it's more likely a sign of HIS poor soft spot than our inherent inferiority. And if he chooses someone else, oh well, we'll find someone else better suited to us.

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i totally agree beside you. i've been have those same problems with my friends. they other talk almost this one specific girl. she is also my friend.

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