Christians please ...if u r married n u masturbate is it wrong ....?

ok , never done it , i never masturbate but some of my friends r married n they make they do it near their husband ( the husband do it 4 th wife n vise versa ) , they say they r married so they can do as it will b matching as regular sex

the question is : if u do beside ur partner ( husband or wife ) is it wrong , n if u r married n u do it by urself is it wrong ...

2-----also, the husband of my friends wants to hatch porn near his wife , he says he's married nm god wont b upset but she refuse is it wrong , n why

i knw it's wrong but i need resons to convince him

thanxxxxxxxxxxx
Answers:

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I disagree with you, none of that is to say wrong, married or not. BUT if she (or u) feel self-conscious about doing any of those things that you're cold to be doing them. Eeryone lives by their own set of rules and values. You get to set down what yours are- nobody else does. Even if you are religious there are inevitably going to be things that the church dictates that you will disagree near. Don't worry so much over what everyone else is doing and resolve things for yourself only.

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