Pain during sex and bleeding afterwards?

My boyfriend and I recently started having sex. I have never had sex before so we took the first time slow. It hurt but I expected it to. We've have sex 3 or 4 times since and every time it hurts like crazy. I bought lube for us to use but it didn't seem to clear a difference. I didn't bleed the first time we had sex but the last two times I own bled. He's not rough with me and he goes slow because he can see that it's prickly. Does anyone have any advice as to why it hurts and how to decline the pain. And is it normal to bleed after sex?
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Hey nearby hon!

Unlike what others have suggested here, as well explanation as they may be, pain and bleeding during sex, isn't usual. That said however, it does not mean in attendance is anything seriously wrong either. As you've only just now started a sexual relationship, a little blood loss could be down to an intact or partially intact hymen. It doesn't other bleed, but it can do and it certainly isn't serious.

An intact or partially intact hymen, not simply can bleed, but it also can cause some discomfort too. So again, it is not something serious.

My concern is you say it hurts approaching crazy. It really shouldn't do, but please don't panic - again, it's probably nothing serious. When different to sexual intercourse, without even knowing it you can be very tight and nervous. Having had a couple of discomfited experiences prior, when you try again you may become even more tense. It's perfectly innate, and even happens to someone like me at 33! The problem is, you become unbelievably tight and aren't as lubricated as you could be. Although, you are using lubricant, this eventually dries out and is not quite as good as your own raw stuff! It really does sound like a satchel of being a little too stiff, maybe a bit nervous, and probably for a moment anxious in light of your recent experience.

Do you enjoy time to relax and take your time at foreplay? Have you got somewhere undisruptive and secure where you won't be interrupted? Starting a topical sexual relationship at any age needs time for relaxing, exploring each other and getting surrounded by the mood? I really think whilst you are getting to know each other's bodies and the sexual relationship, you want to take things alot slower. Try getting each other excited and to orgasm short even having intercourse. Learn to turn each other on surrounded by every other way without have full sex. If you can do this, then you know you're relaxed!

I would also recommend going to see someone at the Brook Advisory Clinic. They deal near anyone under 25 years old, and will answer any question or concerns that you have. They can, if you wish, pass you a little examination merely to check all is well medically, but will indeed give you the right advice and support.

All the thoroughly best, don't fret and take care.

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first few times may be majority but i would def see your doctor if it continues. Bleeding between periods or after sex should always be investigated if it is a regular occurance.

I have the same problem and discovered i had cancerous cell that needed removing. If i had not seen my gp i may never own caught it early enough to be treated.

Your enthusiasm is more important than any feelings of shyness or humiliation. They've seen it all formerly and will treat you with respect.

Recently have a spell between 2&3 wks ago it one and only last 2 days, in a minute im bleeding and cramping really fatty?

It may be that your hymen has not completly ruptured. When I first have sex it hurt too. But once my hymen was completely ruptured it did not hurt anymore and sex was much better. And yes it is adjectives to bleed after having sex the first few times it is just your hymen breaking. As how to drop off the pain I am not sure but you should be fine soon... keep have sex :)

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thats ur hymen breaking its normal. it will take some time to bring back easier and lesss painful as there are some women who hold or had thicker hymens. you see as we grow up the activities we do as children also influence the bulk when u grow up. eg sports, horse riding etc..
ask him to take it easy and yes lube is a great theory.

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your hymen is being broken..it bleeds when that happens. But it shouldn't be bleeding a together lot. I'd wait a few days inbetween sex and see if the pain starts to move about away a little each time.

Maybe i am further along ... adjectives i know is that i took a pregnancy trial and it showed positive?

Its is middle-of-the-road to bleed after sex but if it carries on then i would walk and see your G P and see if there is anything that she can do.

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might be embarrassing but speak to your GP here must be female one at your surgery this will put your mind at rest hope you get on in good health

What character of bleeding is this?

at school, they say move out it 7-14 days after your first time

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if it keeps hurting go see a doctor

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