Is this appropriate ?
if so- should you tell that to them on a first date or a second ?
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Answers: no it not indecorous
u dont want an std so go ahead and ask em
i would do the same piece .
Completely appropriate - but there's no need to bring it up until you are both ready to cart your relationship to that level. They should not be offended unless they hold something to hide. I had this same discussion near my boyfriend several years ago - he completely understood & was liable to take the tests & skulk for all results. So don't worry just about it, if you both genuinely care roughly speaking each other it should be a non-issue. Sadly in today's world you gotta bear care of yourself esp if you don't know the person completely well.
Good Luck :-)
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Wow, people truly do this? Good for you, and if the guy is willing to go through adjectives this, he's an angel keep him! I'd wait till it get to the point when you feel it could go for a moment farther. This way he'll get to know you better and establish it's worth the wait, hopefully. On one date I went on years ago I made a guy I met through a friend wear a condom and I wore a womans condom, it be kind of kinky but I found out later he have genital warts and two of his other girlfriends had it but I didn't catch them, whew! Be who you are. If you need that to feel comfortable, consequently it might be best to mention it, very very unceremoniously, as soon as you can work it in the conversation, maybe even in the past a date.
You might say," there are so various diseases out there, I get tested every three months and I feel everybody should."
See what I mean?.
Well I think making them receive a test is a little unwarranted. I guess maybe if you paid for it because im sure they are a touch expensive. I can understand that you don't want a STD. I would maybe ask them if they are a virgin and if they own ever had one before. That's kinda a tough subject and a tough examine. I guess I would if I was comforatable with that being but then again I wouldn't have sex near them if I wern't either.
I think its clearly ok. Your responsible for your sexual health and I'd want to have piece of mind that I'm not catching something. I cogitate its a responsible and mature decision and he should respect that. I'd loaf till AT LEAST the seconds date, maybe third or forth, see how the first date go see if you'll even want to have sex with him within the future :) haha. Good luck..
It is not only appropriate but astute.
You don't want it to go like this, though:
"Thanks for dinner...a short time ago FYI if you're thinkin about gettin' in my pant, I'm gonna need a clean bill of strength cause I don't want chlamydia."
The subject has to be broached prudently and at an appropriate time...probably not the first date, but maybe the second or third, when the topic of sex has be hinted around at..
you should tell them that if you are sure you will have sex next to this person.. and it is not appropriate it is ESSENTIAL to ask. Do not ruin your life because of sex. Sex cause so many problems when your not sure what your getting into. Get them to get the hiv check and make sure the person is worth wasting an orgasm on=) I would categorically ask if you're in a serious relationship and considering having sex short condoms.
You should never be having condom-less sex with anyone unless you're sure they dont hold any STDs.
And no, I wouldnt mention it on a first or second date. Not even the third..
I think it is perfectly appropriate. Just trade name sure not to catch them with it at a fruitless time. Possibly wait until the subject of sex comes up...that way it most credible won't catch them off guard. If they truely support for you, they will understand your concern and get tested. Well to be honest I muse that you are a little paroniod. Maybe you have see alot of thing about Aids and sexual illnesses. You should rob things slower. I understand the reason's for it, but i think that if you close to him just ask him. It shows that you don't trust him. .
I wouldn't tell them unless you know your going to be intimate beside them. How would you know after the first date? If you do ask them~I wouldn't want to have relations with someone who I didn't trust satisfactory to have a honest conversation about this beside anyway. its completely acceptable. You dont have to mention it the first date. Wait until you are in position to have sex and tell them that you want them to lift tests first. If they refuse, later u dont need to be with them..
if you want that human being to have a hiv, std test after you need to do the same. and narrate them no sex until you get the results!
second date is fine. you dont need to be within a hurry..
yes it depends on how you ask though have a nice conversation then slid the subject surrounded by then slid in that he/she should receive tested see if that works cause you don't want them feeling too odd or confused no, its completely appropriate! umm at least the 2nd, you dont wanna freak him out lol. but no i would do the same entity.
-Kacy .
i would ask them when you think the relationship is at the point where you surface comfortable having sex 1st or second date? You sound similar to a hussy, play hard to get woman!!.
hell yes its appropriate! i parsimonious would you rather ask a simple question, or contract a deathlike disease???? uhmmm heck yes they need a test! 1 out of 5 adults hold an std according to statistics today.
no that's personal info what if someone asked yo that?
sure it is.
YES IT IS CUZ U DONT WANT AN STD!! yes, this is definately appropriate.