My friend is freaking out that if her bf fingers her he will break her hymen and he would freaak out because there was blood everywhere. They are still contained by that young immature features of relationship, they hardly ever talk. I don't know what to recount her and it makes me feel discouraging. Mine broke when I was 11 so I don't know what to tell her.
Help?
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I am wanting to know if Laparoscopy (TUBES TIED) Is right for me, can ya sustain a gal?

If she is that worried in the region of it, and does not feel close enough to bleed on him, next they aren't ready. That is the reality of sexual contact..not as glamorous as we would resembling it to be. It is very possible that her hymen is not even in contact from deeds she did as a child, but if it is, yes there is a possibility of bleeding. It is rare for in attendance to be "blood everywhere". I don't know anyone who had ever made a huge mess, but some spotting and bleeding is possible. This could be a very awkward and self-conscious situation for a couple who doesn't feel close enough to operate with this. I would really suggest that she either decide to wait, or has a agree with him about the truth of what might happen. Maybe he isn't even aware of the hymen? But if they barely even cooperate, it doesn't sound like she would discern comfortable at all telling him this. I simply don't think it's time for them yet. It have nothing to do with age..if you aren't comfortable beside a partner and with the nastier part of relationships and sex, consequently she probably isn't prepared for that yet. Best wishes for you and your friend.

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Mirena... pros? cons?

His finger may or may not break her hymen. Her hymen could have already be broken by some other physical activity. Not all girls bleed when they break their hymen and if they do bleed it's not other 'everywhere'.

If she's worried that he will freak out because of the blood or worried about anything then she's not emotionally grown enough to be engaging within sexual activity.

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I Feel Like I Need To Pee During Intercourse?

Id be a good friend and let somebody know her to wait til it was a seasoned relationship and that sex is not just a physical thing but outstandingly emotional to.

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My mom have cysts...?

She could break it herself beforehand! There's got to be instructions somewhere on the net...Idiot's Guid to Hymen-Breaking or something. Good luck
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I'm thirty years weak and the lone mode that I can hold an orgasm is if I'm on the top.Any suggestions?

I have seen a few guys on the internet that run hymen breaking services out of their homes. maybe she should get in touch beside them. they are usually available in "teen" chat rooms on IRC. good luck.

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Possibly pregnant? What are the likelihood? (I am married)?

If they're so unused that a bit of blood will phase them, then maybe they should hang on to their fingers to themselves for the time being.

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Help next to cousin.?

omg... u guys are too young!! if you are her friend stop fear bad and give her damn moral advice. stay away from boys who want to get within your pants. (esp. this early)

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When the hell will it find here?

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What is this?
Tampon/pad relieve?
I know i already asked this but i involve more answers. please?

What are my probability?

Birth control, spell...?

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