Help!! I am sexually frustrated! I am a 20 year old female...be on ortho-tricyclene for about 6 years and just within the past year I have notice a HUGE decrease in libido. Taking the pill is completely defeat the purpose..my boyfriend and I rarely have sex anymore...and not because we aren't attracted to eachother but because I hold a really hard time getting "in the mood." We enjoy gone as long as month without sex. I know it is hard on him and me both. I hold done research and I understand that the pill can have a huge affect on libido (possibly long-term) and this scare me! I don't really want to rely on condoms only though...what's the alternative? Is there any pill that does not do this? Would an IUD formulate a difference? What can I do?! It is getting to the point now that for the past year of our relationship, sex is something we do every 2-3 weeks...where on earth we used to do it almost every day, sometimes several times. I am in a long relationship and it's really taking a toll!!
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I want to switch to a different birth control, should I?

The copper iud doesn't enjoy horomones, it lasts ten years or you can have it removed if you want to enjoy kids sooner.

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Is sex more pleasurable when on a time?

This is pretty normal for birth control...I was surrounded by your same situation and tried everything to restore it. I switched pills a couple times and gave up, the libido was newly not coming back. I then found a unprocessed herbal enhancer that is supposed to increase your sex drive and a couple other things. It's called Hersolution gel, read up almost it at herenhancement.com where I saved on it at the time. However it's close to an instant libido rush and as I kept using it my sex drive was through the roof and continues to be. The sensation blast is great too, I can't tell you how oodles times I've had multiple orgasms when before I couldn't even draw from a single one. Theres also capsules you can take that I've hear are better but I don't like swallowing many pills throughout the afternoon. I was skeptical at first but the return policy was so great that the company be offer. From what I remember you had to try it out for a couple months but later you had time afterwards to return it for a full money back if it didn't work. I didn't own that problem as you can see. Well good luck and I hope this helps.

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