Does anybody else want to in recent times cut their boobs sour and go and get them out of the approach?
Sometimes I want to just SLUG them so they will catch the message!
Another reason for me to have them surgically removed is that my husband think they are play toys and is constantly fondling or honking them. For over a year, I greeted the back of his hand (while on my chest) beside a hard fist. He got to where on earth he thought it was a game, and when he saw my fist coming, he would verbs away quickly to see if I would then slug myself.
I stopped doing this, as I guess I might have broken his hand, and it needed to restore to health. A friend at work told me to honk his wiener when he does it again, but to make sure I do it hard adequate to count. When I did that he told me that I am mean. Then I told him that he is disrespectful!
Don't get me wrong, here are times when it is ok for him to touch, but not when I'm making dinner or weeding the garden - etc. And especially not when the kids are nearby!
1. How do I stop the kids from indifferently hurting me? (boy age 6, girl age 11)
2. How do I get my husband to ask permission to touch?
(Hope someone get a laugh out of this, but I AM serious!)
Answers: Been there hun, go from a B-C to a DDD after my kid and they didnt go back.. so here goes that old wives chronicle.
My husband at the time thought it great fun to grab me and squeeze hard, or to pinch a nipple ( he have radar I swear to get on thru a paded bra cup)
What it took to make my son stop be telling him that every time he poked, hit or jumped on my chest I would step on his foot. And I did it. one and only took 3-4 days before he stoped, because I might not get him right when he get me. But when I did It made a impression.
my hubby? makeing him stop was a plain outmoded fashioned slap across the face. I had tried chitchat to him, tried explaining it can hurt, and its not right near the kids, tried making him ask to touch.. even tried just grabing him close to you did.. the result the same. He said I was aim and that it hurt him, while he was sure I LIKED being grabed..
It's kinda funny, but kinda disheartened : / . I would have beat down my husband by presently if he did that to me. I would feel really disrespected if my husband did that. You need express to him that you don't similar to it and you aren't his personal play thing. If he doesn't respect how you feel and your body, consequently you got a problem. He isn't entitled to you.
As far as the kids go you inevitability to tell them that it hurts mom when they hit you there. That you don't appreciate it and that they obligation to be more gentle because it's a sensitive part on mommy. Like compare it to something close to being slugged. Ask them if they like mortal hit or pinched, which they will say no to and then convey them that you don't like it either. .
1 capably the Girl you can tell her that it just hurts and you are a woman and it hurt contained by your place.
2. tell your husband that he must ask to touch, and if he doesnt ask, push his hands sour and dont talk to him for a while and tell him how you touch or just straight out tell him how you get the impression
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you are really just going to have to be merciful with the kids. your daughter will start to be more careful when she realize that it hurts. and for your 6 year old, there isn't really much that you can do. he wouldn't fathom out it if you talked to him about it. so i have an idea that that you are just going to have to be tolerant with him. as for your husband i absolutely agree that in that are times when he should and shouldn't touch you. you might want to talk to him about it and if that doesnt work, after when you see him walk up or something then cross your arms over your chest so that your breasts are not accessible. Honestly you simply need to have a loved ones meeting. Sit everyone down in the living room or kitchen table and explain to your kids that it is not nice to hurt mommy and how would they close to it if someone was always punching them within the stomach (just an example there!).
Then once the kids are gone explain to your husband how you do not think it is a team game and that he should not touch at inappropriate times. Tell him you think he is individual disrespectful and that if you say no you mean no. Even walk as far as threatening to have them surgically removed if he can not cooperate.!
Best of luck!! =)