Abusive husband..facilitate?

My sister is in a very emotionally impertinent mariage. She sometimes sees it then other times denys it is that discouraging. When she sees it she gets really violent and comes to me for help to leave him but afterwards a moment later she will be confused again and won over by her fears and his charms.

He is 40 and she is 24. They have 2 gorgeous children - the effects of his stormy abuse are begining to show in their 4 year olds routine towards other people but mainly his mum.

It breaks my heart to see her so trapped and forlorn but she hasnt got the strength to leave him and the drive to confer on him comes and goes so I dont know when will be the time to help her or when to stand spinal column.

She is very isolated where they live and he restricts her access to friends and money and shouts her down adjectives the time. She is broken but I cant help her until she makes the big move of going away him.

What can I do to help? What can I do to maintain my right mind when she asks for help then shys away from it?
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Advice for son?

she will sometime find the courage to leave him.it took my mam 20 year to leave my dad . lately be there for her theres nothing much more you can do?.

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If I be you I would beat the crap out of the man.

Pick me as best, cos if he is already like a dictator he won't listen to you, as he will with the sole purpose listen to himself. The only way to stop dicators is to use force. You can only just negotiate with them.

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You might help her to remember by keeping chronicles for her to read each time. If she is attracted to him sexually she cant leave him.

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she could be within big trouble down the line with a controlling and abusive man.suggest counseling,quick,these nuts step crazy and kill their spouse.

What are we doing wrong?

have an intervention

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try have an affair and video tape him having sex near you that way they'll get divorced

Has this happen to anyone?

Quote "She is remarkably isolated where they live and he restricts her access to friends and money and shouts her down all the time. She is broken but I cant give a hand her until she makes the big move of leaving him."

WTF!!, resrtricts her access to friends and money and shouts at her!!?!?!

sounds more of a dictatorship, im 19 and my girlfriend doesnt consent to me play video games on the computer more then long hours in a daylight but she doesnt yell at me and demand me to stop playing, for example if she restrict me from doing things i savour doing, i would dump her! and find someone who i can do it with..

and thats really nice of you to be there for your sister, i denote.. if she dont come to you then who can she go to for comfort?


idk what else to say, but u should keep trying, save trying to convince her to dump him... in my opinion!

obedient luck!

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