A kid at 33 and 38?

I have always be told that I cannot have children, tried once in my previous matrimonial and went through a lot of heartfelt distress with failed attempts and tons of refusal EPT's...lol I did all but in vitro-fertilization. This be 8 years ago and since then I have done capably to overcome some of the emotional issues it caused me, I enjoy finally accepted in my director that I was not meant to enjoy children and that my life would be chaotic and that I am too self-centred to have children, (of course people detail me that changes), but now, I have a alien man in my life, we hold lived together for a year this month and suddenly, at age 33, I am finding myself thinking of trying new medicines.is that nuts or what? he is 38 years frail and has a newborn grandson, an 18 year old daughter and a 15 year frail son...I know deep down that I would be ecstatic to find out I would be a mother finally, but how would or could I adjust my duration now around having a child? The man I am next to loves me deeply and he would do whatever make me happy, but would I be wrong to ask this of him at 38? I get the impress he thinks he is too old, he is a grandpa for holiness sake..lol I am not looking for my answer on here...that would be stupid to let a bunch of internet users make a decree like this for me, but I am certainly looking for several opinion on the situation. Thanks in advance! :)

Answers:    I believe you should progress for it
I have four kids and as much as they get on my nerves I love them beside everything that is me
they are my world
I cannot imagine my natural life without them
If you want to try again for a child with someone you know you will be near I say go for it
I quality you only live once do what you want while you are here..
you want a baby next go for it, talk roughly speaking it with him. ill pray for you and one and only you can make the right decision but if i be you id just cooperate to him, ill pray and i hope whatever you want you achieve, and if not then thats the path God wanted life for you. and you hold 2 stepchildren even though theyre pretty much grown up you can still have a relationship with them If he is 38 immediately and lets say he is 40 by the time tot is born, it is still .OK because he will have to actively earn a salary for something like 20 years after the birth which will make him 60 by the time baby is 20 or 21.
That is adjectives fine, but do not wait on this one.
It is sheer murder on a man to have to still be actively earn a salary at the age of seventy or so, just to catch baby through high university.


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