I'm 24 and have be married for 1 1/2 years. Sex still hurts and I'm not sure why. My husband is average size, about 6 1/2 inches and reasonably wide. Even using lube it feel like he purely doesn't fit. Is this possible? There's maybe 5 times within all the times we've had/tried sex that it be comfortable. He's very analysis and puts no pressure on me whatsoever. I also have fibromyalgia, so that doesn't serve things. Does this sound similar to something I need to see a doctor in the region of? Or do we just have need of to have more sex so I can "stretch out"? It's getting to the point where on earth I don't even want to be intimate with him because I don't want to head him on and then turn him down.

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Answers:    You should see a generous, understanding OB/GYN and bring checked out for any kind of infection or irritation that might be compounding the problem. You could be allergic to the lube; you could own vaginitis; you could have endometriosis. You could even hold a hymen that didn't break properly. Though doctors will suggest it, I would not suggest trying to stretch out through sex, because you could tear...and that take forever to heal...and next you'd have blemish tissue which is even less flexible. I would try to find amusing, sweet sexual practices that don't involve intercourse but that might give support to you stretch out (there are actually gadget for this that your doctor can tell you about--if this doesn't gross you out). You should be capable of have intimacy short intercourse so that you keep the playful security that you have.

If down this road this doesn't glibness up, look at this site:
http://www.healthywomen.org/vulvodynia/
I keep thinking nearby is a vulvodynia/fibromyalgia connection but I don't know what it is: misfiring audacity endings everywhere?

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Did you hold sex with other guys formerly you married? If so, did it hurt with them? If it did, consequently maybe you own a problem that needs to be looked at by your doctor. If sex didn't hurt next to other guys, then in that is some other problem going on with your husband. i dont belive in attendance is anything wrong. a baby comes out of you and that is to say bigger then a pines. at hand is a lube call Slippery Stuff. it works great. and have more sex will help also. something els you will want to be intimate when you do own sex. it will relaxe you.

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By all system, ask your doctor.
However, I do think you're onto something, near the thought of stretching yourself out.

Get a couple vibrators, one quite a bit smaller than your husband, and one somewhere between him, and the other vibrator.
Start next to the smaller one, and work your way up to the bigger one. Use it a LOT. With your husband around, and when you're alone.
In time I'm sure you will be fine, and relish it.

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