Help! Cutting myself...?
Alot of ethnic group say its because of passionate pain. I suffer from depression but i bear meds for that and plus ive been happier the final few monthes than i have be in a long time especially b/c of my bf (we newly started going out a month ago and im soo happy) but i cant stop now
why am i doing this?
Answers: Ur doing this bcause ur stressed. And ur nutty. Ur probably taking it out on urself. Next time, just purloin it out on a pillow or bed or play soccer or some sport u can let anger out on. Good Luck! All u can do know is SMILE! =) U can also see a counsler 2 lend a hand u stop and figure out wuts wrong, but 1st basically try wut I said! =)
You should talk to a professional. It may be heated, maybe something else, but you patently need to see someone. I choice you the best. mental addiction. lots of people do it. i haven't cut within over a year but sometimes i still want to do it. you need to find something else to focus you headache in. possibly writing or playing music. it help, trust me.
it could be that it is a way to promise with intense pain, adjectives yourself lets you touch physical pain instead of turbulent, and cause you are sentiment happy doesn't tight that you aren't depressed you could be on a high right in a minute, or the stress of the relationship is effecting you and you don't know, the best thing to do is to step to the doctors that are caring for your depression and discuss this next to them and let them know what you are doing, you call for to be honest otherwise they can't help you, and if you don't already own a therapist find one that you can trust and start conversation, you doing it because your guilty. your not used to duration without person upset. your life is surrounded by stake. just stop adjectives yourself; you said your not even upset anymore. cutting is when folks are upset and cut themselves when they feel desperate.
I am, well be a cutter. I havent done it in a while.. Once you start adjectives its SO hard to start, its resembling a drug. You get used to doing it, and whenever something discouraging happens you automatically budge for the razor and hurt yourself to try and rationale pain because you touch numb. Like nothing can hurt/affect you. I cant sit here and bring up to date you that cutting is not the way-- I would be a hypocrite. But I can try and comfort you think of alternatives...instead try excersing, writing surrounded by a journal, going on a saunter.. Or something else to get your anger out! first clear your mind of everthing, after ask yourself why you are doing this and why you need to do this. when you bring back the urge to, call someone you love and speak to them for a while untill the urge goes away. plz if this doesnt lend a hand get some! we lose too heaps beautiful irreplacible women(and men!) in our time to depression! >sarah :)
well you get addicted like me...except im addicted to something else...teehee...just wear sweaters and gloves to cover up so you cant cut. I used to because it took the moving pain away and replaced it next to physical pain which is far more carriage than emotional twinge. You just stipulation to tell yourself you don't entail to do that **, it doesn't help. And you probably want to talk beside a psychiatrist too.
Focus on something you enjoy! Every time you get the impression like adjectives yourself, call your boyfriend to distract yourself (he can't have a sneaking suspicion that that's attractive), or walk your dog, or brush your teeth...something to distract you!
I'm for a time confused myself...why do kids cut themselves nowadays - not a soul ever did that when I was within school? It's grief-stricken that the media plays such a big role contained by peoples lives - kids would have never even hear of cutting themselves if it wouldn't enjoy been on tv so much. Please don't cut yourself merely because you've heard of other society doing it...it's really not the cool thing to do!
Cutting is patently a way of dealing next to emotional agony, but every person is different. The individual way of certainly knowing what is going on and "why" you're cutting; would be to jump see a therapist or counsellor or psychologist. I get the message the thought of speaking to someone might seem overwhelming or fear-provoking, I've been near for years... but it helps; and for me it's help changed my life... I hope adjectives works out for you
