Painful permeation - vaginismus?

Hey everyone. Well this is my first time using this so forgive me for ranting on! I'll get to the point. I am 18 and I only just started going out with someone more or less 7 months ago. This is my first boyfriend, and as certain circumstances allow it, we've "messed around" a few times ... However, my vagina seem to be too tight, even for his pinky finger!

I've done some researching and I know that it may be something like vaginismus, not too sure if I remember correctly. All I know is that my vagina's muscles appear to tense up automatically when he is something like to finger me, no matter how aroused/lubricated I am.

A few night ago he fingered me and was attempting to "stretch" my vagina. I feel a slight ripping sensation and it hurt quite plentifully. A few droplets of blood ran out, too. I be wondering as to what this could mean? We've be both trying to "work" on my vagina for a while but nothing really works! So, can anyone suggest any info. or tips?

Thank you!

Answers:    oh girl, dont verbs about it. i be the exact same way. so tight he couldnt do anything.
it's only because you're a virgin, they're all that tight surrounded by the begninning. im guessing you dont use tampons either, right?
dont verbs about it. soon you'll be "stretched" out adequate. it just take a little time.
and dont verbs about the blood any. that just happen. happened to me, too.

hope i help a litle?
You must see a gyneac. More to the last problem first, his finger staple probably cut you a bit inside with adjectives the pressure - no worry, you'll be fine.

I would suggest hypnosis to matter with the problem itself. I've used it near clients in times gone by to overcome these same issues. It takes a session or two and adjectives of a sudden your body is so ready to of late accept him inside.
in good health...how has the plumbing be acting?...gynecologist can help ya out at the following source website. That blood be probably him ripping your hymen. A good point if you're getting ready for sex.
There are closely of reasons why you would consistency pain.
1. If the character you are trying with is within experience them you will have problems.
2. The elder you get when you've approved to have sex the more difficult it become.
3. The passage of your vagina seem to be a very get thinner one you should consult with a doctor past you damage the walls of your vagina because specifically going to be much more painful than what you are premonition now.
Try getting a toy to minister to stretch u out, it might be embarassing but it will be fun later...

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