I Hate Sex!?
Answers: I don't approaching it either too!! But, mine is related to a tipped uterus AND possible endometriosis. It hurts upon access for me (sign of possible endo) and I get extreme pressures depending on how vast he goes and what positions it is (due to tipped uterus most feasible as these pressures are also associated with have a tipped uterus). In some positions it gets ssooo impossible that I have to coil up and make clear to him to stop.
Did you have an ultrasound done?? IF you own any other signs of endo, an ultrasound might not be sufficient contained by "seeing" the endo as it can grow where the ultrasound cannot "see". Also, a moment ago because everything looks normal/fine, does not always propose so. I was told by my doctor that my PAP smear come back fine and that I "looked" usual too...but he told me that sometimes that doesn't mean that adjectives is "normal" and referred me to a gyno who said the same article but is pretty convinced that I might have endo due to other such signs too. The ONLY process to be 100% sure that nothing is wrong is to enjoy a laparscopy. I am trying hormonal therapy but it's not making it dance away at all...surrounded by fact presently I have dryness problems which make the problem even bigger. ugghhhh!
I know your pain..I know it adjectives too well. Unfortunately for me, fingering even sometimes hurts :S
If you don't approaching it then don't do it. instead of hate now linger sex
There could be something wrong with your appendix. draw from checked out by a doctor. if he's not big it shouldnt hurt. stick to foreplay!
Wow. I have no perception. i think your body is a short time ago still adjusting to sex. it took me a polite 2 months to stop hurting every single time. at first it would always hurt so fruitless we couldn't even finish and i would just set off crying every single time. i think beside more practice it should get better. honest luck though i know it reallllllly sucks.
you obviously dont want it. when you find the right guy you will want to own sex with him,, you inevitability to relax that is the switch to good sex Maybe your newly not attracted to him anymore or just not sexually attracted.
Just bec. you love him does not scrounging he can sexually arouse you.
When you're not aroused when you do it it's probably gonna be painful.
enjoy you tried oral sex yet Give it time.
It does nouns like a relaxation issue..possibly a weekend get away?? progress to the gynecologist and get yourself checked out! i saw on tv where on earth a woman had torment during intercourse and they fixed it and she was so glad!
he can finger you and you can give him a ** I've hear of women who suffer from certain condition which make sex very bleeding. I would get a second feelings. I suppose when you rule out all physical issues verbs to a therapist, it could be a psychological entity. This is pretty hard to concord with, and generate relationships extremely difficult, so patience is substantial, especially on your BF's side. Also try playing with toys, on your own, and near him. DOing it on your own will help you explore your sexuality, and swot up what you might like best surrounded by sex, and how to be touched, and all that. GL
Maybe you really don't soak up having sex because you don't soak up men? Just a thought... dont do any thing if u r not enjoing it ever
Why don't you not do it next? Tell him to use his mouth! You need to relax and be aware of comfortable with the situation. You nouns like your taut! Go to another doctor for a second opinion, in attendance is something obviously not right. Insist on an ultra nouns.
I have hear of this before, I don't dream up it's uncommon.
The sooner the better for both of you.
idk sorry oh but thankfulness for the points!!=) It sounds to me like the problem is that those muscles are purely so stiff that having them moved during sex is cause pain. It's similar to trying to run a marathon lacking warming up first, you're bound to cramp agonizingly.
It's not that uncommon, I've instinctively known a partly dozen women with duplicate problem.
Like any other muscles, those can be stretched if you're careful, long-suffering, and do it daily. 5 or 10 minutes if you can, stretched a moment ago to where it's discomfited but not to where it hurts. Think of it approaching leg stretches.
Lube up with KY or similar and insert both index fingers, and helpfully tug left and right for 5 or 10 second, straight out on the sides. release, then verbs upwards. Back side to side, and you get the perception. After a while, maybe a few days or a week, move to index and middle finger on both sides.
Later on, verbs to bunching your fingers in a group of 3, 4 consequently eventually all five, and trying to expand the first with meek constant pressure inwards. A rotating motion helps.
Combine this 5-10 minute routine near kegel exercises, and you'll be amazed at the results in of late a few weeks.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kegel_exerc...
Well i would suggest u two things,
first,try having sex wit a girl and see if u savour it,coz u stated that u hate it when his dick go inside your pussy.so see if a girl can entertain you or not..
Secondly,bequeath yourself sometime and if you are straight,things would go down immensely well
Well, to me it sounds similar to you're not ready.
I would recommend, first and foremost, erudition your own body and mind in admiration to enjoying the consciousness of being pleasured.
However, if you don't savour the feeling I would recommend not have sex. Although, most people love the premonition of orgasm, some do not. It can make correct individuals (most who happen to be of the feminine persuasion) feel discomfited and therefore they cannot relish it.
Fortunately, there are myriad ways to explore sex. Read give or take a few it. Look at pictures. Learn about it above adjectives else. You will learn to soak up it in your own time.
And put in the picture your bf that he'll have to lurk until you enjoy it from here on. If he can't toy with that then show him the door. Life is too short to be guilted into pleasureless love making. Take control of your body. It's yours, not his. If he is really into you next he'll wait, be supportive and love you simply the same.
I other used to have alot of throbbing durring intercourse, big or small guy. ask yourself this though, is he being rough? or conceivably he is just too big for you? are you short and he is high? my hubby is 6'2 and i am 5'1. I asked my doctor why it always hurts when be having sex because I also go through all the test gyno checked everything and nothing come back. my doctor told me the muscles that hold the uterus within place were person bruised by thrusting motion cause when hubby thrusts my muscles "bounce" i guess you could say aloud, and when u have satisfactory sex on a regular basis it can head to buruising. try having him enter you from another pisition, not thrusting as strong while entering you, maybe or you stir on top so you control how deep or like greased lightning he enters you.
hope this help.
ps: it took me a good 7 months to enjoy sex with my hubby comfortably.. and sometimes when he forgets to be on the gentler side, it does still hurt resembling hell.
You need to spend some YOU time I guess. You're probably tensing up without realising it because you "know" it will hurt. So try masturbating, use one finger if it hurts using two and simply basically do what you close to. Ask your boyfriend don't get him inside you reverberatingly?
I'm 50, and I've tried every kind of sex I ever fancied. You necessitate to get to know your body. When you find your clitoris find out what feel good to it until you hold an orgasm. Then you can tell him where on earth to go to bring back the orgasm you both want. I would suggest he uses his mouth and tongue. If he hit the wrong spot, you'll know it, it's uncomfortable. Get him set going the right process, even hold your labia open for him to find it easier. Go from cunnilingus to anything you want. Sex is the only mode for us to get as close as possible to another human human being. Celebrate it by finding what works for you. Don't be afraid of experimenting. We have fingers and mouths for more than lately pointing and talking. I would ask you to re-consider if you are hoary enough for sex, or he is the wrong guy if you aren't competent to talk to him. Sex is a contribution sport. Did you know that the majority of women cannot have an orgasm lacking clitoris stimulation? You're normal.
peace i love sex
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