Hi, I'm 28 years hoary and enjoy be near my boyfriend for 5 years?
Can anyone help me?
Answers: Dont listen to anna..when u hold sex, you need to be relaxed, and u own to want it. If you are tense, and concerned, it simply wont work. try lots of romantic forplay, and have candles. freshly , try to relax, and be comfortable!!
go to see a doctor. somrthing could be seriously wrong if ur doing beside a condom... maybe the condom is not supporting you..
perchance your not wet plenty, allow yourself to get horny and showery... its what makes sex so fine and agreeable... let him travel down on you and do things you guys may never do before...
try putting ur fingers contained by, does it hurt? dont do anal and than vaginal, because that can cause infections...
if anything, doctors and sex-ologists are other a smart option..
Lay final and relax use lubrications if you need to! Babies come out of in that! Foreplay is important! I don`t know u should stop worring and stop having sex for a while
or g see a doc
When you lose your virginity, your vagina is extremely tight because it's never be stretched that way up to that time. After you start to have sex it become less tight because it's one stretched more often, but if you haven't have sex for a while your vagina can become just as tight as it be before you lost your virginity. This could be what happen to you, but as a precaution you might want to go to the doctor to sort sure nothing serious isn't going on. I ponder your just stiff gurl! You need to relax and consent to nature embezzle its course along with for a moment wine to help beside the nerves...He must be huge so it can hurt but I'll admitt it gets better when you loosen up, probably masturbating or asking him to go down on you might aid the tightness!! Also just be yourself and don't feel so much or you'll never find pleasure!
I have this same problem. I go to my gynecologist and he pretty much waved me rotten with a "hold on doing it, it will get better" because I have just have a complete hysterectomy. But mine still hurts, badly at times, but not as discouraging as it did. I am going to get a contemporary gynecologist. I suggest that you do the same. I grain that I have some growth or tissue block surrounded by the way and that it can be surgically fixed. Maybe this is your problem as ably. Whatever our mutual problem is, we need to find out. Our lives are too short not to relish sex with our beloved husbands. Good luck to you, my dear. There is a condition call vaginismus, where the vulva go into spasm during sex. It's painful.
Are you jumpy during sex? Try some relaxation techniques. If these don't aid, you might want to have a word next to your doctor and see what she can suggest.
maybe you should both turn to see the doctor for treatment maybe here something you should check out first thing raison d`??tre if you hadnt had secure sex then it better you dont own any diseases or end up pregnanted .