Sex--First time.?

Well, I'm a virgin and want to have sex. I'm !really! tight down here and my boyfriend is !verrryyy! "gifted" if you know what I mean... I'm upset to have sex because I'm alarmed I'm going to tear inside. But I hold no doubt contained by my mind, I want to have sex next to him. Any tips on how I can not tear, or even if you can split? Help with dull pain lol. I'm clueless!

Answers:    It;s not going to be completely painless. If this is someone you are completely comfortable with you should enjoy no problem talking to him roughly the following. I suggest you use a lubricant and I wouldn't get crazy beside your first time (scented, flavored, warming, tingling, etc.). Also, explain to him to ease into it. Slow initial access and him not going after you like a rabbit will minister to a ton. It also helps if he warm you up properly...relaxes you..if he uses his fingers first it won't come as a complete shock when the sex starts. Just relax and take it slow; after adjectives it is your first time and you have the rest of your existence to be adventurous. :)
motion lotion try sticking some other things in their first
try some lubricant and relax cuz if u stressed u gon be really really tight.so only just let it jump lol You should wait until marrige ;]
Use more lube. Pain will go off sometimes other times it will not. If your that desperate the pain is the most minuscule of your worries. Hope this helps i would sort sure your either readily well lubricated or use a okay lubricated condom. but honestly i don't think you'll enjoy a lot of trouble because your vagina is closely more elastic-y then you reckon. i think you'll be basically fine just address to him about it and tolerate him know your concerned. i would tell him to be as slow, cavernous, and gentle as possible.
First of adjectives dont be freaked out cuz the more stressed you are the more pain you will quality!! So juss relax!
Try to stick objects with lotion within and it will make you loosen up! I PROMISE!!

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