Why is it that I cannot relax satisfactory during intercourse to own an orgasm?

I try to relax and clear my mind, but my mind always wanders and I stay tensed up. Any planning?

Answers:    Try asking him for a good massage in the past. Just try not to fall asleep like I sometimes do! Do something formerly sex that is completely relaxing. Maybe a hot bath.
You can also try to spice it up a bit. Do something different, turn sour the lights if you need to and just explore respectively other. After awhile you're mind will just be on him..
I used to do the same entry. Actually I still do a lot of the time. I figured out that I am in reality more comfortable having sex with a shirt or bra on (yea I guess I'm a short time self conscious). Even with my boyfriend of 3 years, that helps me to relax and tolerate go a little. Maybe I'll work up to totally nude.

Or receive him to give you a pre-sex back press. I ask my bf for it all the time -- he always think I'm "milking it," but it really does help me relax.

If all else fail, there's always wine..
Trust. When you completely trust your partner then you will know how to relax and enjoy the experience enough to orgasm. it is really knotty to have an orgasm when having sex seldom women get one.. use a vibrator see what happens

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