HELP!! real bad problem hear!?

everytime when i'm eating, my cuzin always sits beside me for some reason. then when he looks at me i get discharge when he brushes by my hand i discharge. when he just looks at me i discharge does this mean my body likes him or something? how do i stop discharging?
Answers:

Just one more question?

First, tell your cousin to sit 'farther away' so you don't 'touch him' accidentally ... if he can sit at the 'other side' of the table he'll have to keep his 'feet' on his side, too.
What is happening is 'psychological' ... you are 'in puberty' and you have this 'discharge' when anything even 'remotely sexual' happens ... including being looked at or 'brushed' by his hand. He's probably doing this because a 'similar thing' happens with men ... they don't have 'discharge' but they get erections ...
You can't stop 'discharging' (getting wet down there) ... it's actually NECESSARY for a woman to 'get wet' to have sex. What you want to 'stop' is the 'feelings' that you get when you 'get wet' from your cousin (and probably other males, too, occasionally). Try 'concentrating' on 'other things' ... what homework you have to do, or having fun with your female friends the next day. DO NOT LOOK AT YOUR COUSIN ... DO NOT LET HIM WITHIN YOUR PERSONAL SPACE (2.5-3 feet) ...
You are getting wet because he's 'male' and he's 'stimulating' you ... that doesn't mean that he is 'appropriate' for you or even that you particularly like him as a 'potential sexual partner.' It means only that he's a male, you are a female and during puberty, our 'bodies' react even without our minds 'knowing and approving.' I really 'like' your 'explanation' where you say 'does this mean my body likes him or something' ... yes, it does ... because he's MALE and you are FEMALE ... but it is 'just your body responding' and your MIND knows 'he's not the one' for you. YOU ARE VERY INTELLIGENT to realize that what the 'body does' is going to happen frequently ... bit it's what the 'mind and heart' do that 'really count.'

what does it mean when one can't control their bladder at middle age?

I don't know that's weird. It could just be that your body discharges a lot. That is bound to happen but the whole cousin thing. weird... don't know...

The male condom failure rate?

Im not sure but if its your cousin and please use spell check,its not a good thing.

Girls/Woman's help ONLY!?

most likely, and you can't spell "here". sorry i had to say something it was driving me nuts.

Unprotected & now i have cramps?

Maybe, or if you don't have your period yet (if the discharge is whiteish) it might just be a sign you'll get it soon. Good Luck!

How do I get a clean shave for my armpits?

Let's leave the emotions out of this. Tell him to back off or quit wearing deodorant to "encourage" him to sit further away.

I dont know how to explain?

Things like that happen when you are 12 and your cute older 14 yr. old cousin comes over. It will pass - Unless you live in West Virginia. Then it might be true love.

First time sex?

yes it is chemistry, you smell him, you like him and that´s why you get those discharges, do you know ehen that say you have chemistry with someone, well it is that honey, some men even have erections from thye smell of a lady. it´s feromones and the things they cause in your body, it is normal really.

Good Luck!! ;D

I got a really heavy period in the middle of the night for just one day?

Yes, your body likes him. That's OK though. That's why we have minds to override our more primitive body instincts. Don't feel ashamed or guilty about it. Just take control of the situation.

If you're just super sensitive to him being near, then that's OK. You'll deal with it, put it in its place, and grow out of it. Some other guy will grab your attention and you'll forget all about him.

If your cousin is deliberately flirting, then that's a different story. If he's brushing your hand and always sitting extra close, then he's playing with your feelings in an inappropriate way, and that's not fair to you and is just plain bad. He may even try to take it further.

Is there someone you can tell who can help you avoid this situation? I know you don't want to create a big drama about it, but you also don't want to let him get enjoyment out of making you uncomfortable.

If you feel like he's trying to find ways to be alone with you, tell a trusted adult right away. I know the attention is exciting, but wait for the right guy.