What's the problem with me?

I own have sex nearly 8 times and respectively time i wasn't competent to come

and when i catch fingered and when it feel close to i hold to come it's manner of intricate to push out?

ugh, what should i do?!

(please don't be offended)
Answers:

Is it everyday to bleed somewhat bit after sex, even if you're not a virgin?

Just relax, you are trying to intricate to enjoy an orgasm. I know from experience that if I hold alot on my mind or focused too much on have an orgasm, i.e. when it won't come as confidently. Also, don't phoney it, it of late ruins it for the both of you, seriously. Try basically to relish the moments of pleasure and newly agree to your mind walk, don't consider in the region of anything, a moment ago be. For me, anyone on top during actual intercourse is the easiest instrument.

When you first own sex dose it hurt?

wat?...theres no pushin to come, you're trying WAY too much. Wait a week afterwards enjoy him try and finger you again. I suspect that because you are near someone else you are self conscious or are more concerned something like pleasing him that you are around pleasing yourself. but i know if you are really ho*ny when you try this again, it might be seriously easier.