Should I be concerned?

I haven't had sexual intercourse in 23 months as of 4/8/07, but yesterday I tried to enjoy sex with my boyfriend of 6 months for the first time, and it didn't work out very well, he told me that he couldn't penetrate me, he said something to the temperament of it being to tight, (sorry roughly speaking the language) anyway we gave up that mission!! Could in that be something medically wrong? Serious answers only please, i'm anxious enough already!
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Nothing medically wrong with you at adjectives. You just weren't relaxed satisfactory, and the muscles of the vaginal entrance clamped down- that's all. The more upset and distressed you got, the worse it get. It's impossible to say why you get uptight- no pun intended- to begin beside, though perhaps your heart wasn't really into it and you be a little over-sensitive after so long a time. Then when you ran into trouble, it merely became a viscious cycle. Perhaps setting the right mood subsequent time would help. Have a nice dinner, for a time music, a little wine, and turn down the lights. Take your time, and don't procure into a rush. As long as he's not trying to rush the gate and step your bones, and is willing to progress nice, slow and easy, you should enjoy no problems. If you still have a problem, within spite of setting the mood, then you stipulation to do some soul searching and agree on if maybe you really don't want to do this beside this particular guy. Maybe your body is describing you what your mind isn't.

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my guess would be that since you have have sex before successfully contained by this instance you weren't producing enough moisture because of denial of arousal or some physical reason. Try again and get sure there is some foreplay to seize the juices flowing. If it still feel uncomfortable use some lubricant close to KY.

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Don't verbs!same thing happen to me that is totally unconscious. What you have to do is to do some foreplay since you need to receive really exicted and wet contained by order for him to penentrate you. He have to be patient and if he loves you he will read between the lines.

Good Luck!

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I've have something similar happen when I have a really bad yeast problem and hadn't notice! It could be that you're not getting lubricated enough, which could arise if your body is out of practice, or you're nervous or tired or something. I suggest you procure some good lube, move about exploring, and see if there is any transparent problem. If no, you can always use the lube beside your boyfriend! KY is good, and you can carry it at the grocery store. If there is a problem, walk straight to the doctor.