Is this my first extent?

I just turned 13. Okay this is not easy for me to talk almost.. but I know I am very close to have my period. I hold been getting discharge for a long while presently and I got alot of abdominal cramps. Sometimes I saw this brownish stuff.. [not in my underwear] .. this is the frozen part [when I wipe...] Yuck right?! and it didn't look too much like blood.. but today, I saw an actual RED color.. since it be not alot I thought it wasn't my period.., do you conjecture it is?
Answers:

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Sounds like you get your first period. Like the others said, have a chat to your mom. Mine was purely a litte bit the first month then nought for 2-3 months and then it started getting regular.

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Sounds similar to it to me, thats how mine started just a month ago. I am thirteen also.

Pregnant? and startled?

thats how mine started,but idk.

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You really need to communicate to your mom, hon. She has be there done that. She'll grasp.

Me n my boyfriend had sex and i starded to bleed is that conventional? or was he to rough?

Yes, it probably is and if it happen again it is . It takes a while to attain regulated.