Trouble orgasming?

I'm a 19 year-old college student and sexually active for the first time. My boyfriend and I enjoy a great relationship, and a great sex life, but the problem is I simply can't orgasm. He's tried several things and works so firm sometimes, even delaying his pleasure for me. We've tried different positions, different condoms, enhancing creams (i.e. KY Jelly w/ warm sensation) you name it. And I've come really close sometimes, REALLY close, I could surface it, but I've never actually climaxed. What are some tips? Have any of you ladies ever have this problem? If so, and you overcame it, what did you do?

I'd like to details that we have even so to introduce toys. He feels approaching he should be able to do it himself, and he get really discouraged sometimes. But if they work...?

P.S.: I know we live in a classmates where women and men are becoming sexually live at younger and younget ages, but I'd feel more comfortable if developed women answered this question. So please, no immature ladies.
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Show him how you like it. Once he get into the rhythm of how you would do it yourself I am sure he would be happy to do that anytime because he know he is accomplishing something for you! I a moment ago putmy hand higher than his and show him how I like it and he other has a big smile on his obverse!

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There was an interesting article I read once in the region of what happens contained by the brain when men and women have orgasms, but what caught my attention is a big element of the womans brain actually shuts down within order for her to enjoy an orgasm, so I'm thinking she can't be thinking about anything else except the sense or it won't happen. (just my thought on that article)

Get rid of any distractions, don't suggest about anything else except the "feeling" and start thinking in the order of things that turn you on way back you start. Don't rush or try too hard to cause it happen...that kill it too sometimes, but I have to voice that the best bet is to get on top and use somewhat vibrator for your cIitorus.as a suggestion.works miracles when all else fail. ;) Good luck girly and have fun.

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When I first married, it took in the region of two years until I had orgasms, though we have lots of fun anyway! Same thing several years later after I divorced, it took something like 18 months until I had orgasms near my lover. I guess my body is slower to trust someone than my heart was. So I know what you're going through.
The first most important item is not to worry more or less it!
If you put that kind of pressure on yourself it will merely make things worse. You don't want to winding up up feeling approaching a trained seal ringing the bell! LOL
So the second article I suggest is just to concentrate on have fun. Enjoy the sensations, both giving and taking, observe what your body is experiencing minus needing to do anything in the region of it, and focus on sharing love with your partner. Unless you hold a physical problem (which it doesn't sound similar to you do), reaching climax will take strictness of itself in time.

This is sometimes difficult for men to do, they've be brought up to be "goal-oriented" and get the errand done. So you might have to lend a hand him understand the desire is to relax and share pleasurable sensations and have fun.

If you are a book party, you can also read "For Yourself" by Betty Dodson, a book about encouraging your own sexuality. It have some fun exercises in it too.

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I am alot elder than you. I've been married and have mutiple partners in the past marriage. I never have one. I faked it. Afterwards I would execute on myself and guess what-my partner now enjoy it because we're both satisfied and it turns him on more and we're at it again. We are more expand minded just as long as both get the same result.

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I hate to say-so it but he can't find your g-spot ... look it up on the net and own him work to find it and how to stimulate it.

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I'm a 30 year antiquated female even I enjoy to use my toy when my man hit and miss. I need a clit stimalation. More so a G spot.

Try the rabbit’s amazing ears tickle and excite your clit, while the spinning pleasure pearls work deep inside. Go from a flutter to a throb next to the touch of a button, and surrender to the orgasmic vibrations!

I got my 1st orgasm at 22 started sexing at 19. And that dang on Rabbit showed me what I should hold been looking for.

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