Pain when I first had sex? Normal?
Ok dont come to me with things close to "how old are you?" "you should own waited" or stuff like that I requirement serious answers. When I had sex the first time [[this weekend]] it hurt really discouraging at first, like really unpromising and so my boyfriend and I decided to linger. Later we tried it again and it didnt hurt as bad but still for a time, so I told him to go slow and after a bit it didnt hurt anymore. But my friend said that when she first did it next to her boyfriend, it didnt hurt that bad. But I own never worn a tampon or anything like that where on earth it could break my hymen, and she has. Could that be cut of the reason it hurt fruitless for me and not for her? Or does that even matter? Does the headache vary for every soul?
Answers:
hi jamie s,
yes it is commonplace to hurt on your 1st time. on my 1st time i thoughy omg waht a i gonna do?
but then he go really slow and we used lubrication so that made it alot better.
remember: everyone is different.some ppl have a giant threshold for pain and some enjoy a low threshold so what hurts one girl may not hurt another. so yes, the pain does swing.
