Experiences About FGM?
alright so here it is
im a victim of FGM and i be wondering if it affects my chances of have a normal relationship and if it turns guys bad and what are you're experiences with it
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After have sex evrey night i concentration i been bleeding.?
I newly want to say I'm so sorry for what you go through, and what you're going through now. I can't dream of what this has be like for you.
I hold two friends who have suffered it as in good health, and I'm sorry to say that yes, it is strong on the men in their lives as in good health (neither of them date men from their old country who would be expecting it.) It vary, of course, depending on the extent of your mutilation and what sort of men you date.
The first of my friends have an Infibulation, where everything is cut away, beside only a small hole for menstruation, so she feel no sexual pleasure at all. As you can guess, this is a unadulterated turn-off for Western men, who are used to bringing physical pleasure to their lovers. She has to reassure them that she experiences pleasure within other ways, and is pleasured by their genital pleasure, even if sex is not pleasurable for her.
My other FGM-victim friend has a "Sunna circumcision" but she still have a clitoris (they only removed the hood), and she can still discern pleasure, thank goodness! Hers isn't really observable to most of her lovers unless she tells them around it. If she does tell, most of them seize angry - not at her, but at her family that did it to her - but it's not a huge agreement after the shock wears rotten.
