Why do I perceive so developed when I'm with the sole purpose 13?

I'm ONLY 5'1 and 80lbs. and I feel like a person who will be heading to collage pretty soon. I already cook for myself, and I know how to drive a stickshift (which wans't even firm to learn at all,, I don't get why ancestors say it is) and a regular car. And My parents don't even seem to aid what I do with my body, THey don't mind if I dye my hair or wear eyeliner or cut my hair. Infact my mom like how I look. I wear clothes like i guess you can say a punk style.
Like they would have care a few years ago (well my mom would have, my daad is a different type of person)
And plus, I'm already starting to have to spend my own money on myself! EVEn though I don't even have a commission or get any money exept only in dec, since it's christmas and my b-day.

Also I be thinking about school, like how it be in 7th grade. (I'm heading to 8th) and I was thinking around the people, and man now that I think more or less it, they're VERY imatue. And making fun of rape and other stuff.. Which tht kind of stuff iss NOT funny at all.

And I was thinking almost how every person at that school called me fantastic and other rude stuff. But I was talking to some people online, and youtube, and everyone said I be beautil, and had gorgous eyes! Which made me relize I'm not ugly.

I'm also an only child which I have a sneaking suspicion that is HORRIBLE. I hate it. always being be myself. And plu I own to take care of a dog, cat, 20 hermit crabs, and fish. It's not really that unyielding eaither. And I have to unload the dishes and load them and water the plants and other stuff. I also have to help my dad do body work on a car.
And Everythime we go to party, I'm like the only one my age, like there's simply adults or babies or tods.
Yet I don't have my period but I really feel resembling i'm off to collage soon.
I really want to be 18 already, becusae I want to live in Toronto and plus I can get a available job and move otu and off to collage!
Answers:
I'm 13 too, and you do kinda get the feeling that you just want to rush ahead because you're instrument above everyone else in maturity. Just slow down abit and enjoy person a kid, because even though you might cook your own meals and stuff, you're still not ready to run your own household or look after yourself properly. When you hit a certain age, parents resembling to try and give you abit of wingspan. So by letting you pick your own clothes and get your hair done alone, they're letting you find your passageway in life abit, which is good. Just take on growing up, and enjoy it ;)
yeah liveing by your self makes you more mature cos you get no1 around to have fun with
Because you are 13.
you may quality mature now, but its not only responsibilities that u gain as you grow up. Your naming adjectives the things your doing, like feeding animals, doing dishes and spending money on yourself.
Good on you.. but you learn sooo much within highschool and just being through those ages. Im almost 17 and even though my responsibilities are similar to when i was 14 (like benevolent for my animals and cleaning and stuff), theres so much more to me now. You learn about LIFE and own experiences.. like friend problems and family problems and you learn how to precision for yourself and learn how to deal with problems that come up.
I know how you feel, i always wanted to be 18 as well lol but at this point i desire i was 14 again because im sick of all the dramas and worries i have right in a minute, that i didnt have a few years ago.
I know it sounds silly and you probably gunna roll your eyes but seriously... enjoy life as it comes because it really does turn fast. And dont start smoking - make the best best best choices and dont put yourself in doomed to failure situations :) Source(s): meeee
To be honest you don't seem mature Im 16 I know I am outstandingly immature.
Saying you are mature and can take charge of yourself sounds very immature. I remember I used to feel that style to everyone around me were just a bunch a little kids.You nouns a lot like me in a grotesque way.

It's sad that you say your parents don't caution im glad you aren't like other girls who go out and do whatever they want because they want their parents to effort about them.

8th graders are very immature guys really start mortal mature until like 11th Grade.

Don't try to rush things you'll be 18 before you know it and you'll regret not acting close to you were 13 so enjoy life immediately.

I live in Toronto it's not all that great but I love living there.

All the things you tabled aren't really mature things that 18 years old off to college do. You really hold a lot to learn.
Your DEF not mature.

It shows in ur post....

btw feed ur pets and cleaning dishes is not being mature like every kid does that jesus christ >.> Source(s): 21 year matured male
I felt similar to that for a while and my mom told me my period was on the way! Maybe its impossible to tell apart for you. I can also drive a stick shift! (we call them manual cars here in Ireland!)
ehhhhhh women i think are grow and its normal that you feel like an grown. I sorta feel the same to since I take attention of my self and have a job.
just loaf a while till your 18 being a teen is great. im 15 xD only 3 more years :(.And I don't think college is close to what they show in movies cause my bro says he hate college.

one thing i don't get is why you want to live in Toronto xD? There's reasonably a few problems there right now. Montreal is the place to stay ;) we got everything. don't drink or smoke(I agree beer taste disgusting) cause that just loses all your money.

and why you surface so mature is probably because you are mature.(maturity doesn't have be age)


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