What is the best way and step by step for foreplay to make the woman melt and reach near to orgasm
Answers: First of all you need to make sure that you have been really thoughful all day. Making her day easier takes away the stress. Just don't be too obvious.
Next you need to be a really good kisser. Don't jump in with the hands too soon but after a little while let your hands roam to the breasts. Find out, ahead of time not during, how she likes them touched. Fast, slow, hard, soft...
The you need to massage her clitorus. Listen to her and take clues, when you've got the spot she'll let you know. Then gentle, but with some friction, use a circular motion to massage it.
If you've got the spot do not stop until she has peaked. Then, wait for just a minute or two, do not remove your finger, and start again. You will be surprised at how quickly the second and third orgasm come.
She'll tell you when she's had enough.
Do not hesitate to talk to eachother about your likes and dislikes. It is best to do this when you are not in the middle of trying to make it happen.
Good luck to you..
from my experience, you have to start the foreplay hours before, it helps if you know her for sometime, woman like to be complemented, tell her she looks very sexy today, tell her how you want to hug her and kiss her, tell her that you get turn on when she makes certain move, like turning his head, when she siles or whatever. call her during the day, and tell her that you been thinking about her all day, that you are horny and can,t wait to see her, don't be afraid ok kissing her parts of her body that you haven't before, you might be surprised, an erotic movie if she likes, or toys, If you have to ask,maybe your not ready to give a woman foreplay/have sex yet.No offense.As for barksabit's answer,most of it was good but if you just gave a woman an orgasm,she will more than likely slap your hand away.As I know I'm one of the few who can't be touched after having one.I love how some people generalize and assume that if one woman likes it,then they all do.So not true!.
go down on her.
lick the labia (lips) very gently, blowing on the vagina gently building up anticipation...and then suck the lips. after you done this for a few mins and shes wanting you more and move lick all over the vagina insering your tongue inside genly massaging and caressing her with your tongue when you done this for a few mins, go for the kill and lick the clit fast! she will be coming in no time!.
The only sure fire way is to spend time getting to know what turns her on and communicating - we cant tell you wat would turn on you or her.
That you have to learn by yourself by asking question or taking note of different reactions to different things you do
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It works for ME mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm take a guidance from kamasutra......
give her a new pair of shoes.