Unbearable Penetration!?
She is, im proud to say, still a virgin and in a minute she says she is ready & im the one she desires to lose her virginity to. however during our attempts i have been incompetent to penetrate or at least not long-gone the head of my penis. to my knowledge i am of average length and girth so this isnt the problem. and she is other suitably stimulated/wet.
The problem is it causes her unbearable headache. obviously im not going keep pushing on the subject and we will give up it for a while. But is there anything we could/should do between now and afterwards? and anything we could do during to try to help the situation?
It isnt an issue to me but she is becoming, understandably, frustrated and upset beside herself and her body :( .
Please help!
Answers:
If i use toddler grease to masturbate and mop up my self right after would it be ok?
I had this problem not so long ago next to my bf. It took us 4/5 attempts before we succeeded and sure it hurt but no pain no gain! Also we used ALOT of lube which really help things along as well. You need to detail her as well that her worrying about it is going to trademark her even more tense,even without realising. Its designed to be a pleasureable experience for you both so make sure she knows that if it doesnt work out this time it doesnt issue! Practice makes perfect. Spend lots of time of foreplay and cuddle and kiss her. Like i said its gunna hurt but once its done, its done and you'll both be wondering what you be worried about all along! Best bad luck, you'll get there! xxI would voice that she should go and see her doctor, although I dont think she would want to as it would be fairly embarassing for her.
A lot of things could be causing this pain, if she is shy which she probably would be could cause this, if you say you are average later I cant see a problem there and from everything else you say I doubt any of you actually has anything wrong next to you that could cause it.
I would say try something similar to a lubricant as you didnt mention trying it, you never know it might solve your problem!
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A woman needs much more than to be 'willing' to lose her virginity, and she's 'frustrated' now, which make it WORSE. Tell her that she needs to be 'totally turned on' ... she needs to be 'wet' down within enough for your penis to 'fit inside' completely. I suggest that you learn how to use the OTHER parts of your body to endow with her pleasure intense enough to make YOUR 'penetration' something she desires not just mentally but physically. But you are getting this 'unbearable pain' because she's not 'turned on' enough when you try.She wants to be seen by a gynocologist. It could be she has a closed hymen, which surgery is her simply option to open it.
it could also be that she is really tense- this will clamp shut the crack to the vagina and cause sex to be very bloody.
both circumstances have medical names.
you can read more by going to:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hymen
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginismus
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dyspareunia
moral luck and wear a condom!
Im assuming this is a hymen issue. Many girls lose their hymens naturally as they grow up, some dont. Also in trustworthy cases the hymen can be abnormally thick.
In any case, she needs to see a Gynecologist. She can efficiently see if there is a problem, and may also surgically remove the hymen (in office procedure usually)
Negitive pregnancy testing, but still behind time?
She is suitably stimulated? What sort of lovemaking is that? Best not to push on the subject any, poor girl. Her welfare should be an issue to you because you, without feeling it, are making her upset that she isn't fulfilling that side of anything relationship you have. Make her feel safe and sound in your arms and stop measuring. You'll be taking her vaginal heat next.If she truly is ready and not suffering from a restless tightening, she may need to see a gynecologist. There may be a problem with her nouns in that area. It's not entirely extraordinary to have to be surgically altered to permit permeation. You are right not to force yourself into that area.
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What an understanding gentleman you are :>) Why not try a suitable lubricant on yourself? When we've had a problem we've used KY, it's very biddable. Obtainable at most chemists, over the counter. Of course you don't say how old you are but I hope you are sensible satisfactory to use a condom. These are already lubricated so don't need anything extra as it can rot them and make them rip.When they say aloud the end cycle...?
I remember when I lost mine. It hurt but it wasn't as painful as she is saying it is. Could it be that she's really really scared and there for isn't relaxed. I mean if she's expecting niggle she may be clenching or something that could be making it worse. But, if she really feels like it is truly that tight, in all actuality it's not suppose to be. She should really articulate to a doctor. They will be able to talk to her, confidentially.can i purely say you are a very reasonable boyfriend and she is lucky to have you.
she might want to have sex and think she is aroused enough but it sounds to me like she is still nervy. i'm afraid nothing will work until she relaxes. just try to do a bit of hugging kissing and forplay on a few ocasions. and one time when you are both relaxed and rady try again.
Since she's still a virgin try something small close to a finger. Start out with one finger and when she is comfortable with 1 next try 2 and so on until you stretch it a little. Even though she is wet try some lub anyway to assist ease things along.
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maybe you could finger her first so she get used to it and then try againgood luck
Massage therapist? A few question!!?
She should dance see a doctor.everyone is made differently down there.:) good luck
Make sure you're going for the top hole! Good luck
I've have this brown discharge a couple of months b4 i get my first length!?!?
If in that is any doubt in her mind then it will come across a very big deal and she will by accident try to stop you.I have just lost my viginity and found it obedient, but then I had experimented first next to toys.
Start by fingering etc to show her the type of feeling she will experience and take it slow. The more she become comfortable with the idea the more she will relax and undo up. I guess the word here is foreplay, foreplay and more foreplay. Although she may be wet she may still be uncomfortable. Being showery is not always a sign that a woman is ready.
Make sure near are no distractions at the time, i.e your not trying to do it while in the back of a saloon where you could get caught, it will engineer her more nervous. Leave that for when your getting bored. LOL
I don't know your age or situatn but I hope your taking precautions and are of legal age, but thats a different issue. LOL
Good luck!
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Thinking in the region of this, there are 2 possible reasons for the problem.1) That although the mind is predisposed, the female is tensed up, and therefore not relaxed down below, which scheme that the act of penetration cannot help yourself to place easily as its like trying to push the penis through a tight hole contained by a brick wall, not very pleasant for either.
Remedy; be in motion and have a good dark out, let the young woman in question grasp tipsy as this tends to loosen the inhibitions, and relaxes a person, which should clear the penetration easier.
No matter how much the woman wants to have intercourse, it is at times, a skin of the mind is willing, but the possible stress through worry of it hurting etc, cause tension and tightening up down below usually involuntary.
2) That there is a medical problem down below, which solitary a doctor or gynaecologist can sort out. This may well be worth checking out if trying the remedy to part 1 have not worked.
Good luck to you both,
Mike t
There might be a chance that she has two wombs. Check it out on the internet. I once read a magazine article almost a woman who suffered from attempts at sex before she realised that she had two wombs, import two cervical passages and that leads to impossible sex.
However, she undergo surgery and managed to have kids. Take her to the doctors and hold her x-rayed, if necessary.
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