Opinion on getting tubes tied?
Answers: I am 27 with 3 daughters. I instinctively, would NEVER have my tubes tied. I have an IUD which is honest for 12 years!! It also can be taken out at any time I choose...this is an outpatient procedure and it only took a 15 min appt. to get it inserted. The approach you mentioned that you doubt you will be with your husband forever suggests that maybe you in reality would consider having another child in the adjectives if you found 'the one' and I am totally with you on that. You never know. Please, ignore his own flesh and blood...your reproductive organs are none of their business...nor your husbands for that matter (respectfully) This is your decision...best wishes..
I am 42 yrs aged, I have been married for 16 yrs. (8/18/08). I made the declaration after my son was born 11 yrs. ago to have my tubes tied, because it be a known fact that I didn't want anymore children. I am the mother of 3 living children (2 miscarriages, 1 abortion). I feel like after putting my body through all that it be time (6 pregnancies). My husband supported me with my decision. The womanly body goes through a lot after childbirth. You are the just one that can make that decision, as for his clan they are not the ones that would have to take guardianship of these children now or later. If your not sure almost the health risk, get a second inference. Good Luck on making the right decision that is best for you. I would suggest clamping. I know that my mom get her tubes tied, cut, and burned after she had two kids, but then latter in life she get married to my dad and decided she'd like a couple more she approved wanted kids. They reversed it all, but they weren't sure if she'd know how to have kids or not. Sure enough she did. My brother and me and next she had an emergency hystereomy. Yep, I spelled that wrong, but she had adjectives her female organs taken out. .
I suggest before doing that you furrow Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome. Drs won't tell you about it and influence it's not true, but too many women have lots of problems after have it done. I myself had it done after my 4th child and regret it. I am now have horrible hormonal problems and may need a total hysterectomy (actually I am scheduled for it if I don't fund out) and I'm only in my greatly early 30's. Good luck to you whatever you want. at 23 I had three kids, a 1 year old, a two year dated and a three year old..the pill did not work for me. obviously I needed to do something. I have my tubes tied the day after having my youngest. I am glad I did, I have no complications and it really was not bad. I did remarry and he be happy to raise my kids as his. my kids are adults presently and he has no regrets..
You say you won't necessarily be beside this man forever. But do you really want to start having kids again? You may love someone in the adjectives, but does that mean you can handle more? That's my simply question for you, I would personally do it because three children sounds close to a lot for me.
It sound resembling it would be a good idea. You don't want more kids, it's more precarious to have them after 3 c-sections, and you don't think you'll be near your husband forever.
Tubal ligation can be reversed; it's a surgery, so it's a serious decision, but it can be done.
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Don't do it just because your husband and his family connections are pressuring you! If you want to do it, then do it, but don't do it because of them!!
If your husband is so set on not having anymore children, afterwards maybe he should get a vasectomy. Mention that to him and see what he think about that..
I would not do it just because your husbands familial thinks so.. do what is comfortable for you.. And since you have have all the children why doesnt your husband have a vasectomy? It shouldnt be up to you to do adjectives the work.. I wouldnt get it.. i would go on the shot or the pill, but if you not comfortable beside getting your tubes tied then dont.. I had mine tied when I be 21. If you are having doubts you shouldn't have it done. When I arranged to do it. The doctor asked what if you guys break up. I said it didn't matter. I wanted no more children. If the doctor see you have doubts. He or she will not do it..
You know what, even if you're not with your husband forever, do you really want more kids next to someone else? Be glad you only have one babe daddy for all your kids. It's just much smaller amount complicated that way. Get your tubes tied. it takes two to receive a baby. your husband also share in birth control. it would be safer if he get himself fixed, suggest that and see what you'll find. if he isn't willing why should you.
well its ur choice to do what u want to its hugely good to do it if u dont want anymore kids im 26 also and i just have my 3rd child 2mths ago and i had mine tied i sugest getting them clamped instead of tied. your still young and you might want some more kids after that on so clamping is reversable and tying isnt. .
You sound like you already enjoy decided... follow your intuition. get them clamped instead of tied.
use a condom :]